Podcast Episodes

Closing the Arousal Gap

Episode 249

With the average Joe and average Jane so different in their approach to sex and the ways and timing of arousal, what can a couple do to close the arousal gap? Join sex therapist and author Dr. Laurie…

Published on 5 years, 3 months ago

Sexual Self Improvement Plan for Her

Episode 248

This week it is Average Jane's turn! Join sex therapist and author Dr. Laurie Watson and couples therapist George Faller as they talk about what the sexual experience for an average woman is and how …

Published on 5 years, 3 months ago

12 Ways to Get Better in Bed For Guys

Episode 247

George wants men to have a method to improve their sexual game in 3 zones—pre-sex, during sex and post-sex in 4 different areas: heart, mind, body, and genitals. Twelve variables for guys who like st…

Published on 5 years, 3 months ago

Ask a Sexual Question and Get "I don't know" for an Answer - What to Do?

Episode 246

As a sexual pursuer, how can you open a conversation with your sexually withdrawing partner? What are some typical questions that pursuers ask and how can they ask them in a better way without being …

Published on 5 years, 3 months ago

The Killjoy Cycle

Episode 245

Let's talk about “killjoy” – the negative cycle that squashes the love life is so many millions of couples out there and how we can name it, notice it and do it differently. Sexual discrepancies are …

Published on 5 years, 4 months ago

Orgasm Gap and How Big is Big Enough?

Episode 244

Is the orgasm gap fair? Laurie and George don't think so. But it's so natural to feel criticized when your partner tries to tell you what they need; how can we get excited about feedback to change th…

Published on 5 years, 4 months ago

Why Do YOU Want To Have Sex? Five Motives For Sex!

Episode 243

Why do YOU want to have sex? George and I talk about the 5 most frequent motives to get it on! Pleasure, Intimacy, Approval, Coping and Procreation. Each motive can be used in sexually healthy relati…

Published on 5 years, 4 months ago

Come as you are with Emily Nogaski

Episode 242

Welcome Dr. Emily Nagoski, PhD, fellow podcaster and award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life. 

Dr.Nagosk…

Published on 5 years, 4 months ago

What Withdrawers Can Do Besides Walking Away

Episode 241

Knowing that their withdrawal triggers their partner, what can someone who feels attacked or criticized do - other than walking away? Wrestling with themselves and naming their feelings, gives them a…

Published on 5 years, 5 months ago

Do Men Really Want Directions In Bed?

Episode 240

Men want an engaged partner and frequently ask for communication in bed.  Yet, how can a women ask for what she wants without sending the message that she is critical and unhappy? Laurie and George d…

Published on 5 years, 5 months ago