Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchADHD, Shame, and Approaching Women: Real Talk for Neurodivergent Men
Episode 318
Today’s Dear DSO submission is from a neurodivergent man—he’s got ADHD, a lot of anxiety, and not much dating experience. He feels like he’s defectiv…
1 year ago
Why Your Wife Changed Overnight: The Hidden Truth About Menopause and Marriage
Episode 317
Most men don’t see it coming—until their marriage is on life support.
One day she’s your best friend and lover… the next, she’s distant, irritable, an…
1 year ago
"I Married a Woman Who Refused Sex for Two Years… What Was I Thinking?"
Episode 316
This one’s brutal. A 36-year-old man marries a 49-year-old woman who insisted they wait until marriage for sex. Two years in, he’s still never touche…
1 year ago
"She Kept a Log to Avoid Sex With Me — What Did I Do Wrong?"
Episode 315
Mr. K wrote in with a story that’s, sadly, all too familiar. He blames himself for a relationship that was dysfunctional from day one. She showed no …
1 year ago
“Why Autistic Men Attract Toxic Women”
Episode 314
Have you ever looked back at a relationship and thought, “What the hell was that?”
You were loyal. Honest. Steady.
She was chaos.
This happens all the …
1 year ago
"SSRIs Killed Her Sex Drive – What Do I Do?"
Episode 313
In this Dear DSO submission, Richie asks a brutally honest question: What do you do when your wife is on SSRIs, has no sex drive, and has basically s…
1 year ago
The Final Talk: Should You End a Sexless Marriage?
Episode 312
In this episode of Dear DSO, a man named Mark writes in about the pain of being stuck in a long-term, sexless marriage. He’s done the work—therapy, s…
1 year ago
Is She Avoidant... or Just Not That Into You?
Episode 311
I hear from a lot of men who fall hard for a woman… and then she starts pulling away. Hot one minute, cold the next. Is it an avoidant attachment sty…
1 year ago
"Worried About My Adult Kids Stuck With a Toxic Mom"
Episode 310
In this Dear DSO episode, we tackle Holden’s powerful story:
✅ A 22-year marriage, wrecked by infidelity
✅ A toxic ex dragging their adult kids down
…
1 year, 1 month ago
Why She Hasn’t Touched You in 8 Years (And Why Chores Won’t Fix It)
Episode 309
In this episode of Dear DSO, I tackle Dave’s story — he’s been married 13 years, but for the last eight, the bedroom has been dead. Less than 10 time…
1 year, 1 month ago