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Back to Search“30 Years Married… But Now Just Roommates”
Episode 339
A man wrote in after 30+ years of marriage. Three kids, a successful career, a busy and interesting life—he’s fit, adventurous, and still chasing gro…
9 months, 3 weeks ago
“I Have It All… But My Wife Doesn’t Want Me”
Episode 338
I got a “Dear DSO” email from a guy who, on paper, checks every single box: tall, fit, wealthy, educated, successful, funny, a family man… and yet, h…
9 months, 3 weeks ago
Are You ADHD? Why Your Brain Is a Dumpster Fire (And Your Wife’s Had It)
Episode 337
Most of the guys who find their way to my videos have two things in common: their relationship is falling apart… and their brain feels like a blender…
9 months, 4 weeks ago
"She Slept With Me… So I Guess We’re Fine Now?"
Episode 336
A guy books an emergency coaching call. Says his marriage is hanging by a thread. He's sleeping in the guest room. She won’t talk to him. Full panic …
10 months ago
Why You Can’t Stop Thinking About Her (Even Though It’s Over)
Episode 335
You ever catch yourself stuck in a mental loop? Replaying the breakup, the betrayal, the one thing she said that cut deep?
That’s rumination — and it’…
10 months ago
"My Husband Cheated with 100 Sex Workers… While I Begged for Intimacy"
Episode 334
This letter hit hard.
A woman writes in to share her story: 20 years of marriage. Zero sex. She thought he had a medical issue. Turns out, he was slee…
10 months, 1 week ago
Retroactive Jealousy: Why Her Past Haunts You (And How to Stop Obsessing)
Episode 333
Men ask me all the time: “Why can’t I stop thinking about her past?” You know she had a life before you… but that doesn’t stop your brain from obsess…
10 months, 1 week ago
Why Therapists Focus on You (Not Your Avoidant Wife)
Episode 332
Why does it feel like the therapist is always on your case, even when your wife is the one shutting down emotionally?
In this video, I explain why anx…
10 months, 2 weeks ago
Why So Many Men Are Lonely (And Won’t Admit It)
Episode 331
A lot of men joke about single women dying alone with 12 cats... but here’s the truth: that’s projection.
Men are facing a loneliness crisis. We isola…
10 months, 2 weeks ago
Why So Many Men Are Secretly Controlled by Shame (Especially Around Sex)
Episode 329
Most men carry shame. But they don’t talk about it—especially when it comes to sex.
They were raised to be "good boys," "nice guys," and "respectful p…
10 months, 3 weeks ago