Podcast Episodes

"She Kept a Log to Avoid Sex With Me — What Did I Do Wrong?"

Episode 315

Mr. K wrote in with a story that’s, sadly, all too familiar. He blames himself for a relationship that was dysfunctional from day one. She showed no attraction. She weaponized sex. She even stopped s…

Published on 2 months, 1 week ago

“Why Autistic Men Attract Toxic Women”

Episode 314

Have you ever looked back at a relationship and thought, “What the hell was that?”

You were loyal. Honest. Steady.
 She was chaos.

This happens all the time to autistic men—diagnosed or not. They end up…

Published on 2 months, 2 weeks ago

"SSRIs Killed Her Sex Drive – What Do I Do?"

Episode 313

In this Dear DSO submission, Richie asks a brutally honest question: What do you do when your wife is on SSRIs, has no sex drive, and has basically shut down in the bedroom?

He’s not alone. A lot of m…

Published on 2 months, 2 weeks ago

The Final Talk: Should You End a Sexless Marriage?

Episode 312

In this episode of Dear DSO, a man named Mark writes in about the pain of being stuck in a long-term, sexless marriage. He’s done the work—therapy, self-improvement, romantic gestures—but his wife st…

Published on 2 months, 3 weeks ago

Is She Avoidant... or Just Not That Into You?

Episode 311

I hear from a lot of men who fall hard for a woman… and then she starts pulling away. Hot one minute, cold the next. Is it an avoidant attachment style—or is she just not that into you?

In today’s Dea…

Published on 2 months, 3 weeks ago

"Worried About My Adult Kids Stuck With a Toxic Mom"

Episode 310

In this Dear DSO episode, we tackle Holden’s powerful story:
 ✅ A 22-year marriage, wrecked by infidelity
 ✅ A toxic ex dragging their adult kids down
 ✅ A father who rebuilt his life, career, and confi…

Published on 2 months, 4 weeks ago

Why She Hasn’t Touched You in 8 Years (And Why Chores Won’t Fix It)

Episode 309

In this episode of Dear DSO, I tackle Dave’s story — he’s been married 13 years, but for the last eight, the bedroom has been dead. Less than 10 times a year. He’s doing the chores, paying the bills,…

Published on 3 months ago

“Am I a Sex Maniac… or Just a Normal Guy?”

Episode 308

Is it wrong to want more sex in your marriage? What if your wife thinks you're a pervert for having a normal male sex drive?

In this episode of Dear DSO, I respond to a submission from a man who feels…

Published on 3 months ago

Will a Vasectomy Kill Her Desire for You?

Episode 307

In this Dear DSO episode, we’re diving into a common and surprisingly emotional question:
 "If I get a vasectomy, will my wife still want me?"

This one came from Matt — a father of three, married for f…

Published on 3 months, 1 week ago

Post-Divorce Midlife Crisis: Should You Hit the Road or Stay Safe?

Episode 306

In this “Dear DSO” episode, I respond to a story from John—a newly separated man wondering if it’s time to ditch the 9-to-5 life, buy a van, and find himself on the open road.

Is this a classic midlif…

Published on 3 months, 1 week ago