Podcast Episodes

“He Forgot Our Anniversary… Again. Should I Finally Leave?”

Episode 325

A 65-year-old woman wrote in with a gut-wrenching story. After 42 years of being married to a man who never listens, never remembers their anniversary, and always puts his own priorities first, she's…

Published on 1 month ago

Anxious & Passive: Why You're Stuck in a Sexless Marriage

Episode 324

In this Dear DSO submission, a man reaches out from the middle of an eight-year sexless marriage. He’s passive, anxious, and paralyzed by confusion—and he’s not alone. So many men fall into this trap…

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

“My Wife Calmly Told Me She’s Not Attracted to Me Anymore” – What That REALLY Means

Episode 321

Seventeen years of marriage. Three kids. Nice house. Dead bedroom for almost a decade.
 Then, during an argument, she looks him in the eye and says the words that’ll haunt him forever:
 “I’m just not a…

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

Why Women Really Cheat (Dual Mating Strategy Explained)

Episode 322

Why do so many women in long-term relationships cheat—and often with men who seem like total losers?

In this video, I break down the science behind two popular theories about female infidelity: the Ma…

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

"When Is It Time to Walk Away from Your Marriage?"

Episode 323

So many men ask me the same question: "How do I know when I've done enough?" They’ve put in the work. They’ve read the books. They’ve hit the gym, led with strength, stayed patient—and still… she avo…

Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago

"My Wife Said I Was Her 'Safe Choice' – Now What?"

Episode 320

A husband finds out—after 12 years of marriage and two kids—that he was never his wife's first choice. After a night of drinks and a fight, she admitted she "settled" for him and still thinks about h…

Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago

When She Tells You Who She Is... Listen

Episode 319

In this Dear DSO episode, I respond to a man who saw the signs early on—but kept going. She told him who she was from the beginning. The problem? He didn’t listen.

We talk about the consequences of ig…

Published on 1 month, 4 weeks ago

ADHD, Shame, and Approaching Women: Real Talk for Neurodivergent Men

Episode 318

Today’s Dear DSO submission is from a neurodivergent man—he’s got ADHD, a lot of anxiety, and not much dating experience. He feels like he’s defective, like he’ll never figure out how to talk to wome…

Published on 2 months ago

Why Your Wife Changed Overnight: The Hidden Truth About Menopause and Marriage

Episode 317

Most men don’t see it coming—until their marriage is on life support.

One day she’s your best friend and lover… the next, she’s distant, irritable, and completely checked out. You think you did someth…

Published on 2 months ago

"I Married a Woman Who Refused Sex for Two Years… What Was I Thinking?"

Episode 316

This one’s brutal. A 36-year-old man marries a 49-year-old woman who insisted they wait until marriage for sex. Two years in, he’s still never touched her. No sex. No intimacy. Nothing.

He’s confused,…

Published on 2 months, 1 week ago