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Back to SearchEp. 11: Changing How We See People Changes People
Season 1 Episode 11
You've heard me say "Changing How We See People Changes People." Let's talk about how I know this is true. It helps us understand why understanding…
5 years, 7 months ago
Ep. 10: Not Flipping Your Lid...When Your Kid Flips Theirs
Season 1 Episode 10
How do we not flip our lids when our kids are going bananas? It's HARD. Because dysregulation is quite literally contagious!! And if we flip our l…
5 years, 7 months ago
Ep. 9: Co-Regulation Before Self-Regulation
Season 1 Episode 9
Self-regulation is a crucial developmental milestone and I’m thrilled that we are turning our eyes toward self-regulation instead of staying focused …
5 years, 8 months ago
Ep. 8: Self-Compassion Keeps You Regulated
Season 1 Episode 8
I love love love talking about self-compassion for two main reasons. #1- Self-Compassion is solidly anchored in the relational neurosciences- and yo…
5 years, 8 months ago
Ep. 7: Connection or Protection? The Science of Opposition
Season 1 Episode 7
The brain has two modes- connection or protection.
Protective behaviors include opposition, defiance, aggression- basically, any behavior that doesn't…
5 years, 8 months ago
Ep. 6: What's Regulation Got To Do With It?
Season 1 Episode 6
In a word...EVERYTHING.
I talk about regulation constantly. So let's take a moment (or 25 minutes) and really define what that even is.
This episode d…
5 years, 8 months ago
Ep. 5: Saying the Unsayable with Special Guest Anne Heffron
Season 1 Episode 5
OOOOH...y'all are in for such a treat because Anne is just that. A treat. Anne is an author, writing coach, and adoptee. Her memoir, "You Don't Lo…
5 years, 8 months ago
Ep. 4: Tracking Arousal- Not Behavior
Season 1 Episode 4
The key to true, long-lasting behavior change is actually to stop focusing on behaviors. Stop trying to change them. Stop the charts. Stop the beh…
5 years, 8 months ago
Ep. 3: No Behavior is Maladaptive
Season 1 Episode 3
There is no such thing as maladaptive.
No. Behavior. Is. Maladaptive.
Sure, there are LOTS of behaviors that have pretty big negative consequences…for …
5 years, 8 months ago
Ep. 1: Welcome to Parenting after Trauma with Robyn Gobbel
Season 1 Episode 1
Welcome!!
Parenting after Trauma is the most spontaneous, least frills podcast on parenting children who have experienced trauma.
In November 2020, I…
5 years, 8 months ago