Podcast Episodes

Being Bi-Something in the Lifestyle

Episode 86

There are perceptions in the lifestyle that a woman must be 'bi-something' to attract and connect with other couples. On the men's side of things there is a double standard and a stigma attached to b…

Published on 4 years, 7 months ago

Feels Like the First Time

Episode 85

Perhaps you have not had your first play experience yet or haven't had one in a very long time due to the current pandemic.

Preparing for that first play experience creates a lot of build up, anticip…

Published on 4 years, 8 months ago

The Let Down- Can We Still Be Friends?

Episode 84

Do you struggle with if, when and how to tell other couples you're not interested in meeting? What about after you've played and you've lost interest? What if they ask you why you aren't interested?

Published on 4 years, 9 months ago

The Struggle is Real

Episode 83

Not only does real life often get in the way of engaging in the lifestyle, but simply staying sexually connected as a couple is a struggle. Add a global pandemic to the mix and you have the perfect s…

Published on 4 years, 10 months ago

The Compatibility Conversation

Episode 82

We believe there are three important components of compatibility that we need to consider when trying to find connections with people in the lifestyle: General Compatibility, Safety & Health Compatib…

Published on 4 years, 11 months ago

The Language of the Lifestyle

Episode 81

In this episode we discuss the idea that there is a unique language spoken by those in the swinging lifestyle. We believe this language is comprised of four distinct elements: the language of speakin…

Published on 5 years, 1 month ago

Finding True Friends in the Lifestyle

Episode 80

We talk a lot about all the special friendships we've made in the lifestyle and many of you express frustration over finding the type of connections we describe.

In this episode we offer tips on what…

Published on 5 years, 1 month ago

Can We Afford the Lifestyle?

Episode 79

It's not a secret that engaging in the lifestyle can be expensive! In this episode we discuss budgeting tips for your lifestyle adventures and why we prioritize spending money on us as an investment …

Published on 5 years, 3 months ago

How Do I Know She is Interested in Me?

Episode 78

Men are programmed through all aspects of life to avoid showing interest in other women. But now we are in this lifestyle where other women expect us to show some interest. This is so confusing! How …

Published on 5 years, 3 months ago

I Never Imagined I Would Ever...

Episode 77

Before entering the lifestyle or becoming experienced in the lifestyle we never imagined doing some of the things we've actually done and things we've learned about the lifestyle. We share how our pe…

Published on 5 years, 5 months ago