Podcast Episodes

Episode 129: Taming the Voices Inside My Head

You're awake again at 3:00am. You can't go back to sleep. You calculate how much sleep you'll have if you go back to sleep right now. Then, while staring at the ceiling, a voice inside your head deci…

Published on 5 months ago

Episode 128: Enough With the Pineapples! How to Make Connections in the Wild

Episode 128

We are contantly bombarded with lifestyle symbols and the promises they bring of attracting lifestyle couples to us in our day-to-day lives! From upside down pineapples in the grocery store, to black…

Published on 6 months, 1 week ago

Trust: What It Is Not

Episode 127

What is trust not? Trust is not a feeling that someone else creates in us with their actions.

Some of us think we can trust people only when they are doing what we want them to do so we don't feel un…

Published on 6 months, 4 weeks ago

Episode 126: The Many Flavors of Jealousy

Episode 126

Fearing or experiencing jealousy is one of the biggest reasons couples either don't try the lifestyle or don't last in the lifestyle. Why is that? It's more complex than we realize! Join us as Cather…

Published on 7 months, 3 weeks ago

Episode 125: A Live Celebration of 10 Years Podcasting!

Episode 125

Please join us in celebrating 10 years recording the We Gotta Thing podcast! This is a very special episode recorded live with a group of our closest friends at the Desire Pearl resort. We thank all …

Published on 8 months, 2 weeks ago

Handling Rejection in the Lifestyle

Episode 124

Meshai from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us as we dive into the topic of being rejected in the lifestyle. We all experience the negative emotions when rejected by others and Meshai helps us to…

Published on 8 months, 3 weeks ago

Episode 123: The Many Meanings of 'Connection' in the Lifestyle

Episode 123

Why do we want to connect with others? What are some ways we connect with others? What types of connections may we experience? How do we stay connected? What happens if we become disconnected with ot…

Published on 9 months, 2 weeks ago

Non-monogamy Takes Work- How Much Are You Willing to Invest?

Episode 122

Jason from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us this month to discuss the 'non-quantifiable' work involved in exploring non-monogamy. Based on our WGT episode 100 in which we discuss the quantifiab…

Published on 9 months, 4 weeks ago

Origin Stories- Mark and Beth Canuck

Episode 121

Listen in as our friends Mark and Beth share their unique journey into and exploration of non-monogamy! We also review our Virgin Cruise out of Barcelona and discuss our first local lifestyle meet an…

Published on 10 months, 3 weeks ago

The Benefits and Challenges of Non-monogamy with Expansive Connection

Kel from Expansive Connection coaching joins us to discuss some of the benefits and challenges one may encounter when choosing to explore the non-monogamous lifestyle. Kel shares from her perspective…

Published on 11 months, 1 week ago