Podcast Episodes
Back to Search10 Attributes of Successful Swingers
So you think you've got what it takes to be 'successful' in the swinging lifestyle? From our 11 years of experience, we share what we believe to be the most important attributes a person or couple mu…
Published on 4 months, 3 weeks ago
Our Differences Make Us Better
Episode 132
Why do we usually react to the word 'different' as something negative? Our differences can help us to learn more about ourselves which can lead to individual growth as well as strengthen our relation…
Published on 5 months, 2 weeks ago
Finding Your Tribe in the We Gotta Thing Community
Episode 131
What makes the WGT community unique? We are not a dating site. We are not like a Facebook group. Nor are we similar to a Discord server, a Slack channel, a Zoom meeting or a WhatsApp conversation.
Wh…
Published on 5 months, 4 weeks ago
Episode 130: All About 'Swolly' Relationships
Episode 130
Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us to help define that 'squishy' term that is a result of some combination of 'swinging' and 'polyamory.' She then discusses pro's and con's of what…
Published on 6 months, 2 weeks ago
Episode 129: Taming the Voices Inside My Head
You're awake again at 3:00am. You can't go back to sleep. You calculate how much sleep you'll have if you go back to sleep right now. Then, while staring at the ceiling, a voice inside your head deci…
Published on 7 months, 3 weeks ago
Episode 128: Enough With the Pineapples! How to Make Connections in the Wild
Episode 128
We are contantly bombarded with lifestyle symbols and the promises they bring of attracting lifestyle couples to us in our day-to-day lives! From upside down pineapples in the grocery store, to black…
Published on 8 months, 3 weeks ago
Trust: What It Is Not
Episode 127
What is trust not? Trust is not a feeling that someone else creates in us with their actions.
Some of us think we can trust people only when they are doing what we want them to do so we don't feel un…
Published on 9 months, 1 week ago
Episode 126: The Many Flavors of Jealousy
Episode 126
Fearing or experiencing jealousy is one of the biggest reasons couples either don't try the lifestyle or don't last in the lifestyle. Why is that? It's more complex than we realize! Join us as Cather…
Published on 10 months, 1 week ago
Episode 125: A Live Celebration of 10 Years Podcasting!
Episode 125
Please join us in celebrating 10 years recording the We Gotta Thing podcast! This is a very special episode recorded live with a group of our closest friends at the Desire Pearl resort. We thank all …
Published on 11 months ago
Handling Rejection in the Lifestyle
Episode 124
Meshai from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us as we dive into the topic of being rejected in the lifestyle. We all experience the negative emotions when rejected by others and Meshai helps us to…
Published on 11 months, 1 week ago