Podcast Episodes

350: Weed, Porn, and Masturbation: The Trifecta! (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)

"Porn was the #1 relationship I had in terms of intimacy."

So says Jason on his experience of sex, love, and closeness in his 20s. (Fortunately, after…

1 year, 4 months ago

349: Interested in plant medicine but don’t want to do “drugs”? Try this. (ft. Luke Adler)

Most of us, on our growth journeys, become aware that we need to heal from some kind of trauma. We also often discover that we need more than talk th…

1 year, 4 months ago

348: ‘I wish we had sex more.’ (ft. Violet Lange)

A common pattern in a lot of love relationships sounds like one partner (often a man, in a man/woman dynamic) saying things like:

1 year, 4 months ago

347: Men’s work isn’t enough. You’ve also got to have this. (ft. Luke Adler)

Have you ever felt unworthy, less than, or "deeply ugly and stupid," as my guest this week put it?

The fact is, we need all the support we can get. We…

1 year, 4 months ago

346: When whining is so magical that it generates polarity! (ft. Jason & Violet Lange) [replay]

Is it painful for you when you feel that your woman is closed? Do you long for more ways to help her open up fully? (Not just sexually, but that is i…

1 year, 5 months ago

345: The 4 male "types" who partner with Borderline women (Borderline Personality Disorder) (ft. Violet Lange)

Ever been with a woman partner who was emotionally volatile? Ever felt like you were walking on eggshells, or that no matter what you did it wasn't e…

1 year, 5 months ago

344: 3 dating myths to let go of immediately (ft. Jason Lange)

Are you gettin' out onto the dating scene in 2025? Whether you're newly single, a refugee from the world of pickup, recently divorced, or you've been…

1 year, 5 months ago

343: A quality women yearn for in relationship (but rarely talk about) (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)

There's a certain quality in men that a lot of women long for -- and I mean long for it from the depths of their beings -- but often don't talk about…

1 year, 5 months ago

342: Are you scared of her big feelings? This may help. (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

Ever felt intimidated when your woman was upset (about something that involved you)? Ever gotten defensive, stonewalled, or made her wrong -- "that's…

1 year, 6 months ago

341: GirlTalk: The most important relationship skill of them all

When it comes to love relationships, whether you're dating or in a committed, long-term relationship, there's one place where you need to be skillful…

1 year, 6 months ago