Podcast Episodes

335: Ever felt like women had a 'list' in dating & relationships? (ft. Violet Lange)

Ever gotten the sense that a woman is sizing you up ... deciding whether you match up with a list she has in her head around her ideal partner?

You mi…

1 year, 4 months ago

334: Are you needy? Here’s the difference between neediness and having needs (ft. Jason Lange)

What does it actually mean to be needy? We use the term a lot, and sometimes in less-than-kind ways -- both in terms of describing others as well as …

1 year, 4 months ago

333: Are you addicted to porn? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

Do you ever feel ashamed of your porn use, or wish you could stop or cut down? Ever had trouble getting it up and wondered if that's connected to por…

1 year, 4 months ago

332: Ever gone into freeze? Here’s what’s actually going on. (ft. Stacy Matulis)

If you've ever felt anxious around a woman you were attracted to, gone rigid when you tried to flirt, or completely shut down during a fight with you…

1 year, 4 months ago

331: GirlTalk: Relationship lessons, growth work, and memorable men

Ever wondered what different women say when they get really real about their last relationship? 

How about why they do growth work — and what it looks…

1 year, 5 months ago

330: GirlTalk: How to go down on her so she loves it!

If you love having sex with women and want to be known as a great lover, being good at going down is an important part of your repertoire. ;)

But it’s…

1 year, 5 months ago

329: How do you stay grounded when she's dysregulated (upset, stressed, anxious, angry, etc.)? (ft. Jason Lange)

When your partner gets anxious or upset, do you feel like it's your fault or that you have to fix it immediately? How able are you to stay grounded a…

1 year, 5 months ago

328: Betrayal trauma. How do you recover? (ft. Rosanne Delaney)

"For so long I felt like, ‘this is only happening in my marriage.’"

If you've ever experienced something dark, difficult, or deeply challenging in you…

1 year, 5 months ago

327: Transforming shame into power. Yes, it’s possible. (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)

What are you most ashamed of? Is it your sexuality -- how much you want and need sex, or your deep-down cravings that you fear others would judge if …

1 year, 6 months ago

326: GuyTalk: How do you overcome a sexual challenge (like premature ejaculation)? [REPLAY]

Ever experienced porn addiction (and had that affect your love relationship), contended with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, or been w…

1 year, 6 months ago