Podcast Episodes

355: ‘I thought being a good husband meant putting others’ needs ahead of mine (ft. Jason Lange)

What does it mean to be a good husband?

Many men we work with were trained to take care of everyone else before themselves. They often feel burnt out,…

11 months, 2 weeks ago

354: What’s it like treating Borderline Personality Disorder? (Pt. 1) Ft. Setareh Vatan

If you've ever been with an emotionally volatile partner or perhaps suspected that you yourself might be emotionally volatile, you hopefully already …

11 months, 2 weeks ago

353: GirlTalk: An exquisite quality of the masculine that we quite enjoy [replay]

Ever wanted to be a fly on the wall while women talked about their dating stories? Ever wondered what the men who have women feel both safe and turne…

11 months, 3 weeks ago

352: Do you ever feel collapsed or hopeless? (Like nothing’s working) (ft. Jason Lange)

Does a part of you ever feel like just giving up? It's too much, it's too heavy, it's too complicated, it's too hard. Or has it ever felt like, "What…

1 year ago

351: Men love to be nurtured, too (pt. 2) (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)

Ever feel like you need to be tough in order to be seen as "masculine" enough? Ever feel like you wish you could just let your guard down and be take…

1 year ago

350: Weed, Porn, and Masturbation: The Trifecta! (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)

"Porn was the #1 relationship I had in terms of intimacy."

So says Jason on his experience of sex, love, and closeness in his 20s. (Fortunately, after…

1 year ago

349: Interested in plant medicine but don’t want to do “drugs”? Try this. (ft. Luke Adler)

Most of us, on our growth journeys, become aware that we need to heal from some kind of trauma. We also often discover that we need more than talk th…

1 year ago

348: ‘I wish we had sex more.’ (ft. Violet Lange)

A common pattern in a lot of love relationships sounds like one partner (often a man, in a man/woman dynamic) saying things like:

1 year, 1 month ago

347: Men’s work isn’t enough. You’ve also got to have this. (ft. Luke Adler)

Have you ever felt unworthy, less than, or "deeply ugly and stupid," as my guest this week put it?

The fact is, we need all the support we can get. We…

1 year, 1 month ago

346: When whining is so magical that it generates polarity! (ft. Jason & Violet Lange) [replay]

Is it painful for you when you feel that your woman is closed? Do you long for more ways to help her open up fully? (Not just sexually, but that is i…

1 year, 1 month ago