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Ep 16: When Drinking is part of your Identity with Sober Dave | Rethinking Alcohol |

Ep 16: When Drinking is part of your Identity with Sober Dave | Rethinking Alcohol |

Episode 16 Published 1 year, 10 months ago
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Welcome back to "The Big Drink Rethink," where we challenge popular notions about alcohol and explore how our drinking culture is changing and evolving. In this episode, your host, Anna Donaghey, is joined by David Wilson, also known as Sober Dave, who brings an incredible story of personal transformation from a life overshadowed by alcohol to one filled with new beginnings and self-discovery.

Today, David shares the pivotal moments that led him to question his relationship with drinking and how saying "I don't drink" became the cornerstone of his new identity. From battling societal pressures to redefining his self-worth, David's journey is not just inspiring but a testament to the power of change at any age.

Tune in to hear their honest discussion about the fear, excitement, and challenges of leaving old habits behind and embracing a life of sobriety. Whether you're considering a similar path or just sober curious, this episode sheds light on the transformative impact of rethinking one’s relationship with alcohol.

Here are the Highlights:

04:52 At a young age alcohol ‘gave me wings’ and transformed me.

06:23 Called alcoholic after excessive pub visits

11:28 Realised a need for change and accepted help from a friend.

15:34 Moving to a rough area changed me.

16:27 Confident, reliable man with a funny persona.

20:12 Identity tied to drinking, fear of change.

25:23 Reflecting on change and redefining personal narratives.

30:49 Alcohol use increased during lockdown, raises concern.

35:32 Focus on positive change, try it out.

37:54 Morning bike sessions fostered positive lifestyle changes.

40:36 Overcoming struggles, finding peace, choosing sobriety.

44:22 Using notebooks to build evidence, coaching benefits.

48:37 Approach with excitement, and stick to your truth.

49:50 Continuous personal growth is possible at any age.

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About the host Anna:

Anna is a certified Alcohol Mindset Coach, trained by Annie Grace of This Naked Mind. Drawing on her own journey out of alcohol addiction, she now helps others explore and control their drinking. With a career spanning 25 years as a Strategist in the Advertising industry, she combines her own lived experiences, with great insight into what makes us tick and what influences us to behave the way we do.

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Website: thebeliefscoach.com

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