Podcast Episodes

You Always Have Two Wounded People In A Dysfunctional Marriage

Episode 67

If your marriage feels one-sided, cold, or full of blame — you’re not alone.
Many men ask, “Why am I the only one doing the work?”
“She never opens up. She never wants sex. She avoids everything — but …

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

No Marriage Is Perfect (It's A System)

Episode 66

If your marriage feels stuck, cold, or disconnected — this video is for you.

Many men believe their wife is the main problem in the relationship.
But most of the time, the marriage is broken because bo…

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

She Won't Have Sex With Her Husband She Can't Emotionally Trust

Episode 65

If your wife has stopped wanting sex, this episode will explain why.
It’s not about attraction. It’s not about being nice. It’s not about what you do around the house.

It’s about trust.
Emotional trust.…

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

You Must Heal the Relationship With Yourself Before You Can Heal the Marriage

Episode 64

You can’t fix your marriage by changing your wife.
You fix your marriage by healing yourself first.

Most men try to lead their marriage without leading themselves.
They feel disconnected, unloved, and i…

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

The Need For Connection Versus Neediness

Episode 63

Many men feel shame for wanting love.
You’re told to be strong, stay independent, and never show emotion.
But here’s the truth:

You are made for connection.
Your body and brain need closeness.
That doesn’…

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

You Can't Avoid Your Feelings - Lead Through Them

Episode 62

You are a man. You feel things.
But you were taught to push it all down.
To stay calm. Stay quiet. Stay tough.

You were told:
“Don’t cry.”
“Don’t be weak.”
“Control your emotions.”

But hiding your feelings …

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

I Had A Good Childhood, So Why Am I Struggling?

Episode 61

You had a good childhood.
No abuse.
No trauma.
Your parents loved you.

So why do you still feel stuck in your marriage?
Why do you react in ways you don’t like?
Why do you shut down, avoid, or panic when t…

Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago

The Pursuer-Distancer Dynamic

Episode 60

Do you feel like you're the only one trying?
Are you always the one who reaches out, starts the hard talks, and keeps the marriage going?
Does it feel like your wife just shuts down, pulls away, or avo…

Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago

Why It's Hard To Communicate Your Needs

Episode 59

You want to feel close.
You want to speak your needs.
But every time you try, it backfires.

Maybe she pulls away.
Maybe you shut down.
Maybe you explode or say nothing at all.

In this episode of The Secure…

Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago

More About Hidden Resistance That’s Blocking Your Healing

Episode 58

You’ve been doing the work.
You’re reading.
You’re journaling.
You’re trying to stay calm.

But deep down… you still feel stuck.
You still feel alone.
You still feel like nothing is changing.

This episode of…

Published on 1 month, 4 weeks ago