Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchStop Going to Dead Bedroom Forums — They Are Keeping You Stuck (Perception of Powerlessness Series)
Episode 167
Are r/deadbedroom and r/sexlessmarriage subforums helping you heal… or keeping you stuck?
In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we talk about…
3 months ago
You WERE Powerless Once — Why It Got Stuck in Your Body (Perception of Powerlessness Series)
Episode 166
Many men think they are weak.
They think they are too anxious. Too needy. Too sensitive. Too affected by rejection.
But what if none of that is true?
In…
3 months ago
Why We Stay In Toxic Relationship (Perception of Powerlessness Series)
Episode 165
Many people ask this question:
“If the relationship is toxic, why stay?”
It sounds logical.
But relationships are not driven by logic alone.
In this epis…
3 months, 1 week ago
You CAN Change Your Marriage By Changing Yourself (Perception of Powerlessness Series)
Episode 164
Many men believe this:
“My marriage won’t change unless she changes.”
That belief keeps you stuck.
In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we shi…
3 months, 2 weeks ago
“I Have to Stay for the Kids” (Perception of Powerlessness Series)
Episode 163
Many men stay in an unhappy marriage for one reason: the kids. You may tell yourself, “I have to stay for them,” or “I can’t hurt them,” or “I’ll dea…
3 months, 2 weeks ago
It Feels Like She Has All the Power (The Perception of Powerlessness)
Episode 162
If you feel like your wife controls everything, that feeling is real.
But the conclusion is not.
In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we brea…
3 months, 3 weeks ago
P*rn, Masturbation, and the Dead Bedroom / Sexless Marriage — The Hidden Cycle That Keeps You Stuck
Episode 161
If you are in a sexless marriage, you may rely on p*rn and masturbation as an outlet.
You may think:
“That is all I have.”
It feels like relief. It feel…
3 months, 4 weeks ago
The Bold Move In My Sexless Marriage / Dead Bedroom
Episode 160
If you are in a sexless marriage, you may feel stuck.
You may try to say the right thing.
You may try to time it right.
You may try to avoid rejection.
B…
4 months ago
How Becoming Secure Transforms a Sexless Marriage / Dead Bedroom
Episode 159
If you are in a sexless marriage, you have likely tried many things.
You talked more.
You tried harder.
You stayed patient.
You tried to be better.
But no…
4 months ago
“I Just Gave Up”… Why Accepting a Sexless Marriage (When You Don’t Truly Want It) Isn’t the Answer
Episode 158
Many men say, “I just gave up.”
They stop asking.
They stop trying.
They stop risking rejection.
On the surface, this feels easier.
Less conflict.
Less ten…
4 months, 1 week ago