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Back to SearchEpisode 14: Why are the Unfaithful Dishonest with Themselves?
Season 1 Episode 14
Have you ever wondered why the unfaithful just isn't getting it? It's like they live in this bubble of self deception, seemingly impenetrable, almost…
1 year, 8 months ago
Episode 13: 6 Ways the Unfaithful Retraumatize the Betrayed Partner
Season 1 Episode 13
In this week's episode James and Sam discuss 6 ways the unfaithful party continues to retraumatize the betrayed partner both knowingly and unknowingl…
1 year, 8 months ago
Episode 12: How Can the Unfaithful Stop Draining the Betrayed's Energy?
Season 1 Episode 12
Despite being well into a couple's recovery journey, the Unfaithful can drain the Betrayed's energy in a myriad of ways - from asking the betrayed to…
1 year, 8 months ago
Episode 11: Why is Perfectionism so Dangerous for the Unfaithful?
Season 1 Episode 11
In this episode, Sam and I talk about Perfectionism as it applies in every day life as one of the top reasons for relapse. Where does it come from an…
1 year, 8 months ago
Episode 10 - How does the Unfaithful Make Amends Early on in Recovery
Season 1 Episode 10
The Unfaithful can live in such a way that our life is an amends for the damage we've done. Every day, we can say things and do things that continue …
1 year, 8 months ago
Episode 9: What Are the Biggest Red Flags in the Unfaithful's Early Relational Recovery?
Season 1 Episode 9
"What are the red flags I should be looking for?" is a question James and I receive quite often. It's not only a common question but it's a necessary…
1 year, 8 months ago
Episode 8: How Can the Unfaithful Begin to Rebuild Trust in Early Recovery
Season 1 Episode 8
If there was a word that was both polarizing as well as unsettling for both sides of infidelity, it would be the word trust. How does one win back tr…
1 year, 8 months ago
Episode 7 - Are All Unfaithfuls Intimacy Avoidant?
Season 1 Episode 7
What does it mean to be Intimacy Avoidant? What even is intimacy avoidance and am I that? Or, is my partner that? If so, what do we do and how do we …
1 year, 8 months ago
Episode 6 - How is the Unfaithful's Progress in Recovery Measured?
Season 1 Episode 6
If there was a question I've heard both partners ask time and time again out of desperation, it would be this such question. How do we manage our rec…
1 year, 8 months ago
Episode 5: Why is Resentment so Destructive in the Life of the Unfaithful?
Season 1 Episode 5
Resentment in the life of an Unfaithful is not only toxic but can also be paralyzing. Trying to heal themselves as well as their relationship is hard…
1 year, 8 months ago