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Back to SearchEpisode 52: Entitlement in the Unfaithful: From Demanding to Devotion
Season 1 Episode 52
Entitlement is the silent killer of recovery after infidelity.
When an unfaithful partner comes from a position of entitlement, it poisons trust, sab…
9 months, 1 week ago
Episode 51: 4 Ways Shame and Avoidance Sabotage Healing from Infidelity
Season 1 Episode 51
Shame and avoidance are two of the most powerful forces keeping unfaithful partners stuck after betrayal. In this episode of Ask the Unfaithful, we u…
9 months, 3 weeks ago
Episode 50: The Arousal Template: Identifying Triggers and Blindspots
Season 1 Episode 50
In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, Sam and James take a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood—and most important—concepts in infidelity re…
10 months, 2 weeks ago
Episode 49: Was the Unfaithful Really in Love with the Affair Partner?
Season 1 Episode 49
In this powerful episode of Ask the Unfaithful, we unpack one of the most misunderstood emotional experiences in the aftermath of infidelity: limeren…
11 months ago
Episode 48: 5 Signs the Unfaithful Isn't Sorry...Yet
Season 1 Episode 48
In this powerful episode of Ask The Unfaithful, we unpack five critical signs that the unfaithful partner has not yet reached authentic, pro-active r…
11 months, 2 weeks ago
Episode 47: How Criticism Sabotages Affair Recovery
Season 1 Episode 47
In Episode 47 of Ask the Unfaithful, we continue the conversation from last week's powerful session on judgment—but this time, we're unpacking a majo…
11 months, 4 weeks ago
Episode 46: How Judgment Affects Affair Recovery
Season 1 Episode 46
Judgment is one of the most hidden—but most powerful—forces keeping recovery stuck. In this episode, we take a deep dive into malignant self-judgment…
1 year ago
Episode 45: Why Are the Unfaithful So Afraid to Do Recovery Work?
Season 1 Episode 45
Fear is part of being human—but when you've betrayed someone you love, fear can become a wall between you and the emotional honesty your partner need…
1 year ago
Episode 44: What People Pleasing Does to Betrayed Partner
Season 1 Episode 44
People pleasing can be described as the tendency to prioritize others' needs over your own, often driven by fear of rejection or a need for validatio…
1 year ago
Episode 42: How Excessive Self-Protection by the Unfaithful is Toxic After Infidelity is Discovered
Season 1 Episode 42
"Imagine building a fortress so strong that not even you can leave it."
In our quest as unfaithful to protect ourselves from pain, rejection, or fail…
1 year, 1 month ago