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Episode 112
#112 Ever met a Dom who can control a room without saying a word? In this episode, we're revealing the 10 hidden power plays only experienced Dominan…
6 months, 1 week ago
The Biggest Lies You’ve Been Told About BDSM & Kink
Episode 111
#111 What if everything you’ve heard about BDSM and kink is wrong? In this episode, we're busting the biggest Dom/sub myths holding people back—from …
6 months, 2 weeks ago
What No One Admits About BDSM—But We Just Did
Episode 110
#110 BDSM isn’t just fantasy—it’s how real people grow. Alesandra and Deborah Kat get honest about living a D/s lifestyle: consent, safewords, limits…
6 months, 3 weeks ago
My 3 Must-Haves for Every BDSM Scene (True Story)
Episode 109
#109 What makes a BDSM scene truly work? We talk about limits all the time—but rarely about the things we actually need to feel connected, grounded, …
6 months, 4 weeks ago
Spirituality and BDSM: What No One Talks About
Episode 108
#108 Can BDSM be spiritual? In this episode, we're exploring the meditative and transformative side of power exchange — from subspace and Domspace to…
7 months ago
Expires Oct. 22: 3 Keys to a Killer D/s Dynamic
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7 months, 1 week ago
How Doms Build Confidence Before and During a Scene
Episode 107
#107 Worried your sub will see right through your nerves? In this coaching call replay, Alesandra and her Dom, Jay, share real-world advice on how Do…
7 months, 1 week ago
Chastity and Locktober: Everything You Need to Know
Episode 106
#106 Locktober isn’t just denial—it’s connection, power, and play.
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7 months, 2 weeks ago
Why I Have a Hard Limit on Electroplay — True Story
Episode 105
#105 People think masochists will try anything… but I’ve got hard limits too. In this episode, I share the story of why electroplay makes me cringe, …
7 months, 3 weeks ago
Your First Dungeon Night or Munch? What to Expect
Episode 104
#104 What actually happens your first time at a dungeon or munch? Do people really play in front of strangers? Or do you just stand there and watch?”…
8 months ago