Podcast Episodes

I’m 30, I’m Horny, and I’m Figuring Myself Out

Season 4

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This episode is a little more personal than usual.

I’ve been reflecting on what it actually feels li…

7 months ago

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What Men Actually Mean When They Say They Want Intimacy

Season 4

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Read the companion article:
https://thespicyspectrum.substack.com/

What does intimacy actually mean …

7 months, 1 week ago

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I Cut My Hair and Everyone Had an Opinion About It

Season 4

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 I cut my hair and stepped out into the world with a new look. What I did not expect was how strong…

7 months, 2 weeks ago

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AVN Week Unfiltered: What Really Happens in Vegas

Season 4

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If you want the psychological breakdown of why thousands of men travel to AVN Week every year, read…

7 months, 3 weeks ago

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Why He Tells Her What He Won’t Tell His Girlfriend

Season 4

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Read the full Substack article here: https://thespicyspectrum.substack.com

In this episode of Spicy …

8 months ago

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The Woman He Desires but Rarely Admits to Wanting

Season 4

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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, I explore the gap between public image and private desire.

I work…

8 months, 1 week ago

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Male Loneliness, Desire, and the Fear of Being Seen

Season 4

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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, I explore male loneliness, desire, and why being wanted can feel…

8 months, 2 weeks ago

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What He's Thinking: The Fantasy He'd Never Admit to His Girlfriend

Season 4

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Read the essay in my Substack series, What He’s Thinking:
The Fantasy He’d Never Admit to His Wife

I…

8 months, 3 weeks ago

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What He’s Thinking: When He Shares a Secret Fantasy

Season 4

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Read more on this in Spicy Spectrum's What He's Thinking series on Substack

In this episode of What …

9 months ago

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Last Call to Vote for Spicy Spectrum at the 2026 AVN Awards

Season 4

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Spicy Spectrum is officially nominated for Favorite Adult Podcast at the 2026 AVN Awards in Las Veg…

9 months ago

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