Podcast Episodes
Back to Search77. Mind Movies and Rumination After Infidelity
Season 1 Episode 77
Part of the trauma after infidelity is rumination. The endless mind movies reliving what you know and, worse, imagining what you don't. In this episo…
1 year, 1 month ago
76. Aunties on the Bench: Advice from Chumps to the Newly Betrayed
Season 1 Episode 76
What advice would you give a new chump knowning what you know now? We heard from many listeners who had hard-won advice for the newly betrayed. How t…
1 year, 2 months ago
75. Cheater Non-Apology Apologies
Season 1 Episode 75
"I'm sorry, but you didn't like octopus," is among the more ridiculous apologies a cheater has given for being unfaithful. In this episode, Tracy and…
1 year, 2 months ago
74. How to Be a Supportive Friend to Someone Who Was Cheated On
Season 1 Episode 74
Sarah and Tracy answer a letter from a listener wondering how she can be a supportive friend to someone who is in an abusive marriage with a cheater.…
1 year, 3 months ago
73. Coercive Controllers -- An Interview with Dr. Emma Katz
Season 1 Episode 73
Tracy talks with domestic violence researcher Dr. Emma Katz about her book, "Coercive Control in Children's and Mothers' Lives." Many recognize viole…
1 year, 3 months ago
72. She's 7 Months Pregnant and Caught Her Husband Sexting
Season 1 Episode 72
Sarah and Tracy respond to a letter from a woman who discovered her husband is sexting and on dating site while she is 7 months pregnant. She thinks …
1 year, 3 months ago
71. Why Can't I Leave Him?
Season 1
Tracy responds to a woman, Beth, who writes in to say she can't seem to leave her partner even though she's deeply unhappy. She has shady, circumstan…
1 year, 4 months ago
70. Holiday Traditions You Don't Miss
Season 1 Episode 70
Sarah and Tracy learn what holiday traditions you don't miss from your cheating exes. From obnoxious mother-in-law gifted decor, to the ex who threw …
1 year, 4 months ago
69. Stupid Things People Say When You've Been Cheated On
Season 1 Episode 69
People say the most insensitive things when they learn you've been cheated on. Everything from the cliched "It takes two to tango" or "No one knows w…
1 year, 4 months ago
68. Holiday Cheater Stories
Season 1
It's time again for your holiday cheater stories. The terrible gifts, the discoveries, the yuletide double lives... Tracy and Sarah react to your FW …
1 year, 4 months ago