Podcast Episodes
Back to Search026: Going Deep with Spicy Vanillas: Emotional Intimacy, Sexual Satisfaction, and Questioning Societal Norms
Season 1 Episode 26
In this episode, Elle and Vee and their monogamous friends answer each others’ questions, including:
What does the word vanilla mean to you, and is i…
3 years, 3 months ago
025: Baconfest 2023: Merging Swinger and Traditional Friends, Threesome Takeaways, and BDSM Tests
Season 1 Episode 25
In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their weekend at Baconfest 2023 at their friends' house at the Jersey Shore. It was a mixture of ENM and vanilla …
3 years, 3 months ago
024: Going Deep with Safe.Slut Tricia Wise: Genital Herpes, OnlyFans, and Energy Healing
Season 1 Episode 24
In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Tricia Wise, aka Safe.Slut, who is a sex activist (Instagram @safe.slut), an OnlyFans content creator (sa…
3 years, 4 months ago
023: Solo ENM with Holly: Being a Unicorn, Group Sex Dynamics, and What is Comphet?
Season 1 Episode 23
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Holly, who gives the perspective of a single twenty-something in the ethically non-monogamous dating scene in…
3 years, 4 months ago
022: Setting (and Pushing) Boundaries in ENM Relationships
Season 1 Episode 22
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things boundaries and agreements in open relationships, from the early rules they had when they entered the…
3 years, 4 months ago
021: Alternative Dating Apps for ENM and Kink: Exploring Desires, Finding Events Near You and Defining “Heteroflexible”
Season 1 Episode 21
In this episode, Elle and Vee were inspired to chat about the alternative dating apps and websites that have worked for them in the lifestyle, includ…
3 years, 4 months ago
020: Weddings from an ENM Perspective, Divorce, and the Meaning of Being "Settled"
Season 1 Episode 20
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up on Elle’s trip to Florida with the Joy Fam, while Vee was at a monogamous friend’s wedding… which prompts the …
3 years, 5 months ago
019: Arousal Styles, FOMO, and Running Into Ex Lovers
Season 1 Episode 19
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss what turns them on based on Dr. Emily Morse’s (@sexwithemily) article, “These Are the 5 Arousal Styles, Which O…
3 years, 5 months ago
018: Female Friendships in ENM: Support, Finding Your People and “Zhuzhing”
Season 1 Episode 18
This week, Elle and Vee chat with their friend “Mommy” about the importance of female friendships in CNM (consensual non-monogamy), including:
The im…
3 years, 5 months ago
017: Guys Gone Deep on Approaching Women: Body Language, Turn Offs, and Panty Droppers
Season 1 Episode 17
Elle and Vee continue their conversation with Chet about how to approach women in the lifetsyle, including:
Body Language: how can you figure out if s…
3 years, 5 months ago