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Back to Search024: Going Deep with Safe.Slut Tricia Wise: Genital Herpes, OnlyFans, and Energy Healing
Season 1 Episode 24
In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Tricia Wise, aka Safe.Slut, who is a sex activist (Instagram @safe.slut), an OnlyFans content creator (safeslvt), and sex toy business owner (safeslut.shop…
Published on 2 years, 6 months ago
023: Solo ENM with Holly: Being a Unicorn, Group Sex Dynamics, and What is Comphet?
Season 1 Episode 23
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Holly, who gives the perspective of a single twenty-something in the ethically non-monogamous dating scene in NYC, juxtaposing the girls’ married and partnered…
Published on 2 years, 6 months ago
022: Setting (and Pushing) Boundaries in ENM Relationships
Season 1 Episode 22
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things boundaries and agreements in open relationships, from the early rules they had when they entered the lifestyle, to how they evolved them. They get in…
Published on 2 years, 6 months ago
021: Alternative Dating Apps for ENM and Kink: Exploring Desires, Finding Events Near You and Defining “Heteroflexible”
Season 1 Episode 21
In this episode, Elle and Vee were inspired to chat about the alternative dating apps and websites that have worked for them in the lifestyle, including:
Feeld: what’s so special about this dating app…
Published on 2 years, 7 months ago
020: Weddings from an ENM Perspective, Divorce, and the Meaning of Being "Settled"
Season 1 Episode 20
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up on Elle’s trip to Florida with the Joy Fam, while Vee was at a monogamous friend’s wedding… which prompts the girls to go deep on weddings, divorce, and what it…
Published on 2 years, 7 months ago
019: Arousal Styles, FOMO, and Running Into Ex Lovers
Season 1 Episode 19
In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss what turns them on based on Dr. Emily Morse’s (@sexwithemily) article, “These Are the 5 Arousal Styles, Which One Are You?” The girls also go super deep and shar…
Published on 2 years, 7 months ago
018: Female Friendships in ENM: Support, Finding Your People and “Zhuzhing”
Season 1 Episode 18
This week, Elle and Vee chat with their friend “Mommy” about the importance of female friendships in CNM (consensual non-monogamy), including:
The importance of female friendships, and the difference…
Published on 2 years, 7 months ago
017: Guys Gone Deep on Approaching Women: Body Language, Turn Offs, and Panty Droppers
Season 1 Episode 17
Elle and Vee continue their conversation with Chet about how to approach women in the lifetsyle, including:
Body Language: how can you figure out if someone is into you based on nonverbal signals? The…
Published on 2 years, 7 months ago
016: Guys Gone Deep: Chet on Leaving Mormonism, Navigating ENM, and Approaching Women with Authenticity
Season 1 Episode 16
This week, Elle and Vee talk with Chet, whose journey into the non-monogamous lifestyle is unique in that he was raised in the Church of Latter Day Saints (aka he was Mormon). He talks about everyth…
Published on 2 years, 8 months ago
015: Going Deep with Julia Lange, the Woman Behind Hedonism Swing Breakers
Season 1 Episode 15
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Julia Lange, the brains behind Hedonism Swing Breakers, and the daughter of Harry Lange, the owner of Hedonism II in Jamaica! Then, they answer all your questi…
Published on 2 years, 8 months ago