Podcast Episodes

BREAKING YOUR HEART FOR YOUR ART?

Season 3 Episode 22

Was that horrible relationship worth it because you were able to write some songs about it? Do you believe you have to put yourself through pain in order to feel creative? Did that heartbreak really …

Published on 2 months, 1 week ago

DETACHING WITH DIGNITY

Season 3 Episode 21

Are you too easily attached to men? Are we 'manifesting' bad treatment from men by expecting it of them? Is your rejection sensitivity making you unnecessarily empathetic to men?

In this episode, jo…

Published on 2 months, 2 weeks ago

MALE PRIVILEGE

Season 3 Episode 20

Is there really such thing as 'terrible husband but a good father'? Should we starve men of sex to solve their entitlement issues? Will men ever become the 'good people' we fantasise about them becom…

Published on 2 months, 3 weeks ago

WE NEED TO REJECT MEN MORE OFTEN

Season 3 Episode 19

Should we be less approving of men's flirty advances, even if they are being cute? Are we making the male loneliness epidemic harder on men by being less understanding of their sexual needs? And have…

Published on 3 months ago

BEING THE WOMAN HE CAN AFFORD

Season 3 Episode 18

What do you stand to lose by being the woman he can afford? Do men appreciate women more when our standards are lower? Or are we just overthinking this whole thing?!

In this episode, join Chidera fo…

Published on 3 months, 1 week ago

ATTRACTIVE MEN?

Season 3 Episode 17

Are attractive men worth all the hassle? Do good-looking men deserve to be humbled? Is it a safer bet to date an 'ugly' man?

In this episode, join Chidera for a rather juicy chat!

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Published on 3 months, 2 weeks ago

MALE-CENTRED WOMEN?

Season 3 Episode 16

Are desperate women sinking the ship for the rest of us? Can men tell when you're male-centred? Are low-effort dates even worth it in the name of being a 'cool and easy' girl?

In this episode, join …

Published on 3 months, 3 weeks ago

MEN WILL NEVER CHANGE

Season 3 Episode 15

Are you still clinging onto the hope that one day, men will finally be who we want them to be? Is feminism doing what we need it to do? Are YOU brainwashed?

The Slumflower explores it all in this epi…

Published on 3 months, 4 weeks ago

ARE YOU PRIME PREY?

Season 3 Episode 14

Does being too empathetic make men see you as pathetic? Could there be a pattern of your behaviour that predatory men are drawn to? Are you prepared for a world where the men you're dating are leanin…

Published on 4 months ago

HOMEWRECKER?

Season 3 Episode 13

Do 'homewreckers' really exist? Would you date your friend's ex? Should you forgive your husband for cheating?

Hmmm...in today's episode, join Chidera as she debunks this 'homewrecker' phrase once an…

Published on 4 months, 1 week ago