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Back to SearchEpisode 537: All men are incels (the bitter truth)
Episode 548
I've never understood the use of the term “incel” – or “involuntarily celibate” – as an insult. After all, if a man wants to have sex with a woman who doesn't, then – at least, in the context of this…
Published on 2 months, 1 week ago
Episode 536: Everything is about sex (the true power of male desire)
Episode 547
Oscar Wilde once wrote: “Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.” In this first installment of a two-part series, I discuss the truth of this statement's first claim. Especially when…
Published on 2 months, 1 week ago
Episode 535: Why men lose interest in sex: Familiarity (why closeness kills attraction)
Episode 546
Male sexuality is often misunderstood. In this first in a series of episodes on the topic, I discuss one of the reasons why men lose interest in sex: familiarity. When people live in family-like cond…
Published on 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Episode 534: Her only competition (why men end up in bad relationships)
Episode 545
When it comes to relationships, women don't actually compete with other women for men's attention. Ultimately, her only competition is his solitude: the degree to which he enjoys his own company. Som…
Published on 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Episode 533: Male cheating and female cheating (what makes them different)
Episode 544
In this much requested episode, I discuss some of the evidence-supported differences in male cheating and female cheating. Among other things, these behaviors tend to differ with respect to relations…
Published on 2 months, 3 weeks ago
Episode 532: Estranged fathers (dealing with parental alienation)
Episode 543
I've spoken with a number of fathers who have become estranged from their children as a consequence of the family court system and their exes' manipulative behavior. Dealing with parental alienation …
Published on 2 months, 3 weeks ago
Episode 531: How I know what women want (their feelings don't matter)
Episode 542
My recent Soft White Underbelly talk on what women want received a fair bit of criticism. How could I – a man – possibly know what it feels like to be a woman? Shouldn't we let women speak for themse…
Published on 2 months, 4 weeks ago
Episode 530: All I want... (the problem with dating today)
Episode 541
The problem with dating today is that people want too much. “All I want...” is a prelude to an unsatisfiable laundry list of partner criteria. This keeps people single and prevents them from apprecia…
Published on 3 months ago
Episode 529: Stop short or go long (the two paths to a relationship)
Episode 540
In considering the long-term relationships I've observed that have done the distance, I've noticed two commonalities. The folks who end up staying together either stop short or go long. Using an exte…
Published on 3 months ago
Episode 528: No one is coming to save you (you are the one you are waiting for)
Episode 539
The sooner you realize that no one is coming to save you, the sooner you will get busy addressing the pain and dysfunction in your life. Take radical responsibility, starting with the assumption that…
Published on 3 months, 1 week ago