Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchAvoiding and collaborating, two of the five TKI conflict modes
Episode 187
The TKI describes five different approaches to conflict. And those five are always available to each of us. They are accommodating, avoiding, collabo…
4 years ago
Competing and accommodating, two of the five TKI conflict modes
Episode 186
The TKI describes five different approaches to conflict. And those five are always available to each of us. They are accommodating, avoiding, collabo…
4 years ago
Jennifer Fraser on “The Bullied Brain: Heal Your Scars and Restore Your Health”
Episode 185
Jennifer Fraser, PhD, set out to learn all she could about bullying and healing a brain damaged by it. She was motivated by the experience her teenag…
4 years ago
A brief introduction to the Thomas-Kilmann Instrument
Episode 184
More than nine million copies of the TKI assessment have been sold since it was introduced in the mid- 1970s, according to the Kilmann Diagnostics we…
4 years, 1 month ago
Choosing how much conflict to address
Episode 183
Making choices about just how much conflict to address can lead to better outcomes than stopping before you start or setting up for a sense of failur…
4 years, 1 month ago
Paul Hood on addressing fear in estate planning
Episode 182
Paul Hood has written extensively about estate planning for many years – books, articles, and more. Many have been full of insights for professionals…
4 years, 1 month ago
Conflict coaching tip – think shoes
Episode 181
Putting yourself in the shoes of the person you are in conflict with can provide valuable insights. It’s a key feature of the CINERGY conflict coachi…
4 years, 1 month ago
A conflict spin on Seth Godin’s interested vs. interesting
Episode 180
In a recent blog post, Seth Godin riffed on Interested vs. Interesting. In short, we are all interesting in our own way. That doesn’t necessarily me…
4 years, 1 month ago
Marlene Chism on moving From Conflict to Courage
Episode 179
Marlene’s most recent book is From Conflict to Courage: How to Stop Avoiding and Start Leading. We discuss dysfunctional leadership identities and ho…
4 years, 2 months ago
Ideas on conflict, old and new, at this year’s IFG conference
Episode 178
Earlier this month, I attended my first in-person conference since early 2020, the Institute for Family Governance conference in New York City. Durin…
4 years, 2 months ago