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Silent Divorce, or Quiet Quitting Your Marriage
Season 4 Episode 180
The idea of "silent divorce" has been all over popular media. Here's what it is, who is at risk, who can repair and how, and the attachment dynamics …
7 months, 2 weeks ago
Yes, You May Be Able To Repair Estrangement With Your Adult Child
Season 4 Episode 179
I am in the process of potentially writing a book about estrangement, and came across the statistic that 50% of people would be open to repairing an …
7 months, 2 weeks ago
In-Law Issues... A New Perspective
Season 4 Episode 177
Not the most flattering podcast episode you'll ever hear if you have inlaw issues... but the most realistic, practical, and (should you choose to rea…
7 months, 3 weeks ago
Redo vs. Second Act Vision Of Remarriage
Season 4 Episode 177
I work with many couples who are in their second marriage, and often the man is older and has kids already. In some of these marriages, the woman vie…
7 months, 3 weeks ago
The Transition From A Woman's 30's To Her 40's
Season 4 Episode 167
The transition from women's 30's to 40's can feel very significant. Here's a deep dive into aging, how couples can accept the reality of life moving …
7 months, 4 weeks ago
In Their 40's, Many Women Stop Being The Preoccupied Attachment/Pursuer Partner
Season 4 Episode 175
Why do pursuing women stop in their 40's? How does the avoidant attachment man feel about it? And what else characterizes the post-pursuing midlife w…
8 months ago
Divorce From Each Attachment Style
Season 4 Episode 174
What is it like to be divorced from someone who is secure, avoidant, preoccupied, or fearful avoidant? Today's episode goes into depth about what I'v…
8 months ago
The Passive Aggressive "Shock" Reaction To Your Partner Doing Something Nice
Season 4 Episode 173
If your partner does something nice, like doing the laundry or giving you a kiss, and you react with TREMENDOUS SHOCK, this is passive aggressive. Yo…
8 months, 1 week ago
Mental Load? Or Depression/Anxiety?
Season 4 Episode 172
In today's episode, I go in depth into one of my favorite topics: mental load. Is the problem really mental load/emotional labor? What is underneath …
8 months, 1 week ago
"She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink".... Interview With Matthew Fray!
Season 4 Episode 171
Today we have a special treat! An interview with Matthew Fray, who wrote the viral post that every woman my age remembers.... "She Divorced Me Becaus…
8 months, 1 week ago