Podcast Episodes

Love Must Be Tough (Nuggets from season 1)

In this excerpt from episode 14, Mandy talks openly about marriage and how despite the challenges she faced she feels she is living her best life.

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The Pretender theme…

Published on 3 years, 4 months ago

Reflecting and grateful

In this season finale Jay reflects on his recent birthday and life as he shares his gratitude for all things thus far.

The Pretender theme music is a beat composed by 2dayPresents and is titled "10…

Published on 3 years, 4 months ago

The Pretender

Jay reprises about why he started The Pretender podcast and breaks down some of the reasons he is the original Pretender. He summarizes why he exposed his struggles and for whom he does the show.

Res…

Published on 3 years, 5 months ago

How to save a life

Jay talks about the difficulty of being unable to help someone you care about; especially if you see them going to ruin. He shares his experience with this in his life and asks wonders how he could'v…

Published on 3 years, 5 months ago

The waiting room

Jay talks about the challenge of waiting in life; particularly for things outside of your control. He shares why he sucks at it and some of his experiences with being in the waiting room of life. No …

Published on 3 years, 6 months ago

The real life journey of Jonathan

Jay talks to Jonathan Mundia Manenga about his unique real life journey. He shares an amazing, inspiring story and experience of determination in which he worked his way from someone who was going no…

Published on 3 years, 6 months ago

Mandy (Part 2)

Jay and Mandy continue the conversation on mental health particularly how Christians deal with mental health, Multipotentiality, Mandy's work - the Moose, the Elephant and the duck. So much more exci…

Published on 3 years, 6 months ago

Mandy (Part 1)

I talk to Mandy Dube about her experience juggling life as top executive, wife & mother. She shares the impact of her Mother's death by suicide that led her to facing her own mental health challenges…

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

Letting go of perfectionism

Jay talks about perfectionism in his life and why he struggles with trying to be perfect. He shares a real chicken and dog story when it all came to a head and how he finally decided to be free of it…

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

Personal life cycles

Jay talks about personal life cycles and how his understanding his own 4 year life cycles have helped him embrace the transitions both in business and personal life. He also talks about the cycle of …

Published on 3 years, 8 months ago