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Episode 399
As often as possible, I like to answer listener submitted questions (you can submit YOUR question by CLICKING HERE). The reason is because if you ha…
4 years, 10 months ago
How Do You Argue?: 3 Modes That Fail
Episode 398
Do you find yourself stuck in arguments in your marriage that never get anywhere? Or maybe it is just a matter of useless “discussions”? I was recen…
4 years, 10 months ago
NMF: “Not MY Fault!"
Episode 397
The email was pages long, all about the problems in her marriage. Each line was about how her husband had ruined the marriage. She pointed out acti…
4 years, 10 months ago
Is Your Marriage Crisis Hot or Cold?
Episode 396
Is your marriage crisis marked by heated arguments or cold distance? Hot or cold? Are they really that different? Or is it all a part of the same p…
4 years, 10 months ago
The 3 Barriers and Beyond
Episode 395
For some reason, your spouse just can’t see a way forward. You want things to be better… you want to save your marriage. But your spouse can’t (or …
4 years, 11 months ago
Stages of Crisis Awareness
Episode 394
In my Save The Marriage System Quick-Start Guide, I show the 8 distinct stages of a marriage crisis. But those are the stages of the crisis. There a…
4 years, 11 months ago
The 80/80 Marriage
Episode 393
“Marriage should be 50/50,” many a well-intentioned couple told me before they got married. I knew they were in trouble. And for all of the best of…
4 years, 11 months ago
The 2 Necessary Feelings
Episode 391
Feelings. We all have them. What we feel, and how we make others feel. Sometimes, we have the wrong feelings. And we try to get away from those fee…
4 years, 11 months ago
Out of Nowhere?
Episode 390
Many times, people tell me that their marriage was doing just fine (well, at least OK), and then it was in trouble, “All at once,” that they “didn’t …
5 years ago
Why Your Spouse Doesn’t Believe You Can Change
Episode 389
You've been working hard to reconnect and change yourself. You're proud of your efforts. But your spouse just isn't buying. For whatever reason, yo…
5 years ago