Podcast Episodes
Back to Search23. Good Doms Are Out There
Season 2 Episode 13
This week we're naming and confronting the pessimism that makes us think all potential sex partners are trash, then discussing what good, real Doms a…
3 years, 5 months ago
22. The Sexual Is Political
Season 2 Episode 12
Today we're reclaiming our erotic power and studying a holy trinity of queer feminist writers: Adrienne Rich, Audre Lorde, and Gloria Anzaldúa.
Join…
3 years, 5 months ago
21. The Polyamory Cool Kids Table
Season 2 Episode 11
A new sub wants to know how to manage jealousy when you're monogamous and your partner isn't. Aka, where is your place in the kink community if not a…
3 years, 5 months ago
20. Body Love & Healing Your Gaze with Luna Matatas
Season 2 Episode 10
Join me and Luna Matatas for a discussion all about cultivating body confidence in a messed up world!
Get the rest of my interview with Luna here. …
3 years, 5 months ago
19. We Are Always Evolving (And So Are Our Needs)
Season 2 Episode 9
A sub wants to know how to communicate their changing needs in a longterm relationship, and Lina equips them with proactive, active, and reactive too…
3 years, 5 months ago
18. A Taste For Suffering
Season 2 Episode 8
A tour through the literary origins of masochism, as well as some modern mythbusting for the masochistically inclined.
Get my full interview with Lei…
3 years, 6 months ago
17. Read! The Freakin!! Article!!!
Season 2 Episode 7
Today we're tackling the question of how to share kink resources with vanilla people you encounter in your dating travels, strategies for protecting …
3 years, 6 months ago
16. Herpes Hope & Hotness with Safe Slut
Season 2 Episode 6
Safe Slut joined me to tell me all about her dating life as an HSV+ queen, shared her thoughts on disclosure, and gave us some insight into her first…
3 years, 6 months ago
15. Gender Is Fake, Aftercare Is Real
Season 2 Episode 5
A sub wants to know how to bring forward feminine energy and suppress the masculine during aftercare. Lina's response? Gender is fake, privilege is r…
3 years, 6 months ago
14. 1970s Leather Culture: "A Very Happy Place To Be"
Season 2 Episode 4
Cue up some disco and put on your finest assless chaps, we're taking a walking tour through the heart of leather culture in the 1970's - San Francisc…
3 years, 7 months ago