Podcast Episodes

#31: You're Not Broken, Your Mind Just Learned the Wrong Lesson

There are certain emotional scripts you learned in your formative years that are running your life today. These emotional patterns aren't the enemy. …

9 months ago

#30: Why You're Burnt Out, Unfulfilled, & Still Not Enough (& How Wu Wei Fixes It)

Most people, and high achievers in particular, suffer from a paradoxical problem:

Trying too hard backfires and causes your deepest, darkest fears to…

9 months, 1 week ago

#29: How to Find Peace by Leaning into Chaos

Most high achievers have been sold a lie: that Chaos is a threat that will take everything from you, and the only way to handle it is with more contr…

9 months, 2 weeks ago

#28: How to Create Deep Connection, No Matter Who's Around You

If you wanted to grow bigger muscles, you could read all the strength training books you wanted. But until you go to the gym and apply your knowledge…

9 months, 3 weeks ago

#27: Why Success Kills Connection (& What To Do About It)

Most people who struggle with connection chalk it up to a personality trait. They think their personality, which benefits them in other areas, just m…

10 months ago

#26: The Hidden Reason You're Unfulfilled (Even If You're Successful)

Successful high achievers think they can always rely on themselves more than on other people. This idea helped fuel their success. 

But it's also why…

10 months, 1 week ago

#25: Why You're Not Happy & Fulfilled (Even Though You "Should" Be)

If you're a high achiever, you probably have a tendency to prioritize work above all else. Results are the most important thing to you. And all the o…

10 months, 2 weeks ago

Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong People (& How to Attract the Right Ones)

Most people chalk up their attraction problems to external sources: Maybe they think they need better strategies and skills. Or they believe that dat…

10 months, 3 weeks ago

The Dark Psychology Behind Attraction Strategies (and Why They Always Backfire)

As a former player myself, I know first-hand how crushing the "Grandiosity-Shame Cycle" is. Almost all players fall into this psychological trap that…

11 months ago

The Dating Lies You've Been Sold (And Why They're Keeping You Single)

Men who have a desire to improve at dating often fall into the trap of tactics. And they fundamentally believe that their lack of success is not beca…

11 months, 1 week ago