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Back to Search270. The Relationship Advice You Inherited Might Be Wrong ft. Monica Tanner
Episode 270
Marriage coach Monica Tanner joins Ali to challenge the unwritten rulebook most of us absorbed about relationships without ever questioning it. Monic…
4 months, 3 weeks ago
269. Interdependence, Earned Security, and the Art of Being Unsingle ft. Amy Chan
Episode 269
Amy Chan returns to the pod for an in-person recording with Ali, a conversation spurned from her own deep attachment work. The two chat about Amy’s n…
4 months, 4 weeks ago
268. Listener Storytime: Building a Full Sex Life on Your Own Terms
Episode 268
This week, Ali sits down with Julia, a listener who shares her experience discovering that vaginal sex just doesn't work for her body. She walks thro…
5 months ago
267. The Deeper Pattern Beneath Your Dating Life ft. Meg Tuohey
Episode 267
Relationship coach and author Meg Tuohey joins Ali to introduce her concept of the HeartPrint, the idea that each of us is as unique as our fingerpri…
5 months, 1 week ago
266. The NYT Tried to Give Us Dating Rules and We Have Notes ft. Darcy
Episode 266
Returning guest and Ali’s good friend Darcy is back on the pod, and they’re diving straight into the New York Times' crowdsourced list of 35 dating r…
5 months, 2 weeks ago
265. Dating Advice We Wish We'd Taken Sooner ft. Ilana Dunn
Episode 265
Ali sits down with Ilana Dunn, host of Seeing Other People, for a conversation about the dating advice they both either ignored in the past or wish t…
5 months, 3 weeks ago
264. Hot Topics #22: First Messages, Being Someone's "Type," and People-Pleasing in Progress
Episode 264
We’ve got some amazing listener questions this week, and the thread running through all of them is a concept introduced in this week's Media Mention:…
6 months ago
263. Listener Storytime: Holding Grief While Choosing What’s Next
Episode 263
TW: This episode includes discussion of grief, loss, and suicide. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out. You can call or text 98…
6 months, 1 week ago
262. Are We Watching Love (Is Blind) Stories or Unresolved Patterns? ft. Jackie Dorman
Episode 262
Matchmaker Jackie Dorman joins Ali to break down the latest season of Love Is Blind through the lens of someone who has helped over 1,600 people get …
6 months, 2 weeks ago
261. How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Becoming Rigid ft. Dr. Paula Freedman-Diamond
Episode 261
Dr. Paula Freedman-Diamond joins Ali to discuss people-pleasing and how it relates to control in dating and relationships. Paula, a therapist and aut…
6 months, 3 weeks ago