Podcast Episodes

Finding Common Ground

Episode 448

We've worked in the last few episodes to name, externalize and unite against the emotional and sexual cycles that pit partners against one another. This episode is all couples finding common ground. …

Published on 1 year, 5 months ago

Revolting Against the Cycle

Episode 447

Did you know that 20% of couples can be defined as sexless by year 2 of their relationship? Why is this happening in the early stages of a relationship? Join our hosts on this episode as they break d…

Published on 1 year, 5 months ago

How to Stop Pointing the Finger

Episode 446

Do you find that you and your partner keep having the same arguments over and over, even though you're fighting about different things? If this is you, you won't want to miss this episode! Today's sh…

Published on 1 year, 6 months ago

How to help your withdrawing partner be vulnerable

Episode 445

Foreplay listeners, join us today in a 'School of Love' lesson all about the withdrawer's world! Withdrawers are often shutting down, walking away or seeming closed off in the cycle. These moves help…

Published on 1 year, 6 months ago

Three Steps to Get Outta the Cycle

Episode 444

When we’re in distress as a couple, it’s hard to see that our partners protective moves - either criticism or withdrawal - are really ways that they are covering their deeper hurt, pain and vulnerabi…

Published on 1 year, 6 months ago

The Art of Pillow Talk

Episode 443

Today we're talking between the sheets or rather how to break the silence between the sheets. We always say that if you can talk about sex then you can have great sex. But what happens when you don't…

Published on 1 year, 6 months ago

The Ouch

In last week's episode we discussed the purpose of the protected moves. On today's show we are going deeper to the "ouch," the pain, the vulnerability that lies below that protection. George and Laur…

Published on 1 year, 6 months ago

The Purpose Under the Protection

Episode 441

Do you ever wonder why you get angry in a fight? Have you been unsure why conflict makes you want to run? Join George and Laurie in today's episode to learn the purpose of your protective move, the h…

Published on 1 year, 7 months ago

All Things Cycle

Episode 440

Join our hosts on this episode as they go over all things cycle! The emotional and sexual cycle is a tool that EFT therapists use to help clients find a way out of their current distress and better o…

Published on 1 year, 7 months ago

Is Secure Sex Hot?

Episode 439

Secure sex too often gets lumped in with BORING sex! Laurie and George are challenging this myth and shouting from the rooftops that secure sex is HOT! Join us today as our hosts review what secure s…

Published on 1 year, 7 months ago