Podcast Episodes

161: Whole-hearted Lovemaking and Stage 3 Sex, featuring Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

To love and be loved wholeheartedly. It's life's sweetest gift. Marriages thrive when there's two forces working together love and desire. By love, I mean, the qualities like attentiveness, which is…

Published on 2 years, 1 month ago

I Don't Need You (But I Want You), and Mindful Loving

Episode 160

Oftentimes in our quest to have a deeper, more intimate marriage, it's really not a question of whether you want to be loved or loved more. It's really a question of a capacity to love or be loved m…

Published on 2 years, 1 month ago

For the Men: Embracing Your God-given Sexuality for an Intimate Marriage

Episode 159

Are you looking for a big shift in your relationship?

The men in my coaching program continually see these shifts in amazing ways. They feel more grounded. They see themselves more clearly. They f…

Published on 2 years, 2 months ago

The #1 Limiting Factor in Your Sex Life, According to a Marriage Expert

Episode 158

I have a background in computer science and I love writing code. Nerdy, right? The better the code, the better the program. A program can't run better than the code it's written from.

The way we expr…

Published on 2 years, 2 months ago

7 Ways To Put the PLAY back in FOREPLAY and Make Sex Fun, Not Work

Episode 157

Today I want to talk about what to do when you want to want to have sex but you don't feel in the mood for it yet. Although it would be nice to get in the mood, you know that it's going to take time …

Published on 2 years, 2 months ago

156: How the 9 Personality Types Influence Your Sex Life, According to Relationship Expert Christa Hardin

Episode 156

The famous psychologist Carl Jung once said, "The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed."

Intimate marriages requ…

Published on 2 years, 2 months ago

155: Sex is Weird: Embracing the Awkward, Fetishes, Butt Stuff, and Building a Marriage for Two - Q&A

Episode 155

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This episode covers six of the anonymous questions I've received this month. You all s…

Published on 2 years, 3 months ago

Good Vibrations: How To Close the Orgasm Gap in Your Marriage Tonight, Featuring Amanda Louder

Episode 154

I strongly believe one of the paths to a stronger marriage is by doing the work necessary to have a great sex life as a couple.

Why start with sex? It's because there's such a strong link between …

Published on 2 years, 3 months ago

How a Sexy Bedroom Game Took Our Sex Life to the Next Level with Dan & Emily Purcell

Episode 153

RETREAT FLASH SALE: We've sold out of the main hotel (Hotel Lucy), but we're offering some spots at an overflow hotel next door at a discounted rate! It's $300 off right now through Sunday, September…

Published on 2 years, 3 months ago

152: Your Sexual Fantasies: Once Upon a Time in a Bedroom Far, Far Away

Episode 152

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Sexual fantasies can let you explore and try on new ideas to break away from the mundane and …

Published on 2 years, 3 months ago