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The Art & Work of Relationships
Episode 89
A collection of wisdom on making relationships work over the decades. You've heard me say often "Love is wanting to be a better person for your partn…
4 years, 3 months ago
INSECURE ATTACHMENT & WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT
Episode 88
Everybody deals with insecurity & it has a huge negative impact on relationships. The focus for those who are insecure is what's wrong with my partne…
4 years, 4 months ago
INTERCULTURAL RELATIONSHIPS: UNDERSTANDING THE COMPLEXITY
Episode 87
In intercultural & in interracial relationships as well, you don't always know what you're getting yourself into. Often, it takes several years, seve…
4 years, 5 months ago
DIVORCE: THE FINAL OPTION
Episode 86
Divorce often happens in year 6 to 10. research finds year 8 to be ordinary. In the 50s, it was called "The Seven Year Itch'. If your relationship is…
4 years, 6 months ago
Choices & Their Impact On Relationships Part 2
Episode 85
Life is chock full of choices. There are choices that are self defeating or even self destructive. Then there are choices that are life generating. I…
4 years, 7 months ago
Healthy Self-Esteem Is Critical For Healthy Relationships
Episode 84
Many relationships begin because one person is grabbing onto someone else to feel ok. Everybody wants to be loved, but the solution to this, is the a…
4 years, 8 months ago
WHAT CAN YOU DO TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BETTER?
Episode 83
So often in relationships we are quick to focus our unhappiness on our partner. It's their fault things don't get better, right? It's way too easy to…
4 years, 9 months ago
Silent Resentments & Unasked Questions Are Engines of Unhappiness
Episode 82
Dig down underneath the resentments to communicate or begin the dead-end path to bitterness. Everybody has a choice about which direction to go in. W…
4 years, 10 months ago
Trauma Affects Relationships
Episode 81
Trauma deeply challenges our sense of safety and security in the world, which often has an impact on relationships. It's natural for those who have s…
4 years, 11 months ago
Responding Instead of Reacting When Communicating
Episode 80
Responding is harder to do because it is more complicated than just defensively reacting. Respecting your partner is all about responding & reacting …
5 years ago