Podcast Episodes

225: Drunken One-Night Stands

You had a drunken one-night stand while in a committed relationship, and now you're out of sorts about it.

Maybe you're torturing yourself with que…

4 months, 2 weeks ago

224: Going All-In On Your Desires

Do you want to be lying on your deathbed saying, "Oh yeah, I'm really glad I didn't take that risk"?Or would you rather say, "Thank God I went all in…

5 months ago

223: Whose Job Is It to Change the Conversation About Infidelity?

Have you ever found yourself keeping silent when someone makes a sweeping judgment about infidelity?

Maybe you've sat through conversations where p…

5 months, 2 weeks ago

222: Dating for the First Time in a Long Time

The fear of dating again after a long period of not dating is definitely a factor that keeps some people from thinking clearly about what they want t…

6 months ago

221: Why I Work with Affair Couples as Individuals

Working with couples separately might seem counterintuitive when challenges arise.

The dominant cultural narrative tells us that relationship probl…

6 months, 2 weeks ago

220: Vacillating Between Two Relationships

Going back and forth between two relationships can feel like being trapped in an endless ping-pong match.

One moment you're certain about choosing …

6 months, 4 weeks ago

219: Thriving After Infidelity: Michael's Story

Maybe you're in the midst of an affair, paralyzed by guilt and uncertainty. Maybe you're losing sleep, watching your health decline, and feeling like…

7 months, 1 week ago

218: Creating the Future vs. Predicting the Future

You're already making plans for tomorrow without knowing if the internet will crash, your dog will have an emergency, or an earthquake will hit.

Yo…

7 months, 3 weeks ago

217: The Perils of Telling the Truth

Have you ever felt proud of yourself for telling the truth… only to later wonder if you should have approached it differently?

We often think of tr…

8 months, 1 week ago

216: When Your Affair Partner Breaks Your Heart

Have you ever had someone walk out of your life without warning, only to reappear months later as if nothing happened?

It's complicated enough when…

8 months, 3 weeks ago