Podcast Episodes

Reframing Nasty Things People Say to Victims [270]

Episode 270

“Why do you keep bringing up the past?”

“You can't have boundaries with me. You're my wife.”

“You're too sensitive.”

“I said I was sorry. You need to ac…

1 year, 10 months ago

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Do Marriage Intensives Help to Heal Abusive Marriages? [269]

Episode 269

Gretchen Baskerville joins me in today’s episode to talk about a survey she recently conducted on peoples’ personal experiences with marriage intensi…

1 year, 11 months ago

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Does an Abuser Know They are Abusive? [268]

Episode 268

In today’s episode, I answer more listener questions from women just like you who are trying to figure out what is happening inside of their painful …

1 year, 11 months ago

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Janet’s Excommunication Story [267]

Episode 267

Have you ever been told you are incorrigible? Or how about contumacious, which means stubbornly and willfully disobedient to authority? Janet’s churc…

1 year, 11 months ago

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Excommunication Series: Valerie's Story [266]

Episode 266

In part two of our excommunication series, I interview Valerie, a former member of a Reformed Baptist church that excommunicated her for divorcing he…

1 year, 11 months ago

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Excommunication Series: Marieda's Story [265]

Episode 265

“Your high-handed sin against God is a dangerous domain, especially for those that claim Christ and have identified with the church.” Mareida read th…

1 year, 11 months ago

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Is Teaching Boundaries Victim Blaming? [264]

Episode 264

Is teaching survivors how to have boundaries the equivalent of victim blaming? I’ve seen this topic come up again and again, and I thought it was tim…

2 years ago

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Now Available: All the Scary Little Gods [263]

Episode 263

I gratefully and joyfully, with so much love, offer my brand new book, All the Scary Little Gods, to you!

WHO THIS BOOK IS FOR:

Anyone who has suffered…

2 years ago

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Deconstructing Your Faith Without Losing Yourself [262]

Episode 262

Deconstruction can seem daunting, and you might find yourself becoming fearful of even starting. But let me tell you this: Deconstruction doesn’t hav…

2 years ago

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All the Scary Little Gods: More Insider Scoop on My New Book [261]

Episode 261

We are gearing up for the release of my brand new book, All the Scary Little Gods, which will be available on Amazon in Kindle, paperback, and Audibl…

2 years ago

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