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Back to EpisodesREPLAY: But...What About A Consequence
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Consequences. Punishments. Limits. Boundaries.
These words don't mean the same thing but we often use them interchangeably.
In this episode, we get clear on what exactly is a consequence versus a punishment versus a boundary.
And how parenting through the lens of regulation, connection, and felt-safety is absolutely not boundary-less or permissive parenting.
It's a way of looking at our kids and asking "What does my child need to be successful?" and then giving them that.
It definitely isn't about making sure our kids are always happy or never frustrated or we always say yes.
It's about changing the lens on how we view their expressions of emotions and behaviors.
And yes- it's about setting boundaries that keep our kids safe and help their brains develop the internalized co-regulation (self-regulation!) they need!
In this episode, I reference a LOT of other episodes.
Has Trauma Informed Become a Behavior Modification Technique?
What’s Regulation Got to do With it
Connection can’t not work
We are Always Searching and Yearning for Connection
What Behavior Really Is- free video series masterclass
Parenting after Trauma: Minding the Heart and Brain- online digital course
This episode is a replay of an episode that originally aired on October 19, 2021.
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