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Miserable Marriage to Best Day Ever...How?
If your relationship is tense and struggling then the natural instinct is to dig in, focus more, put more time effort and attention on it and find the cause so you can fix it.
But so often when a man does this, pretty soon he hears the words "You're smothering me" or "I need to find myself" or "I need space" or "I'm not in love with you" which sends him into even more effort and trying even harder and you can guess the outcome of that behaviour.
At this point more of the same isn't going to suddenly produce a different result!
You have to look at this differently - Change your thoughts and you will change your reality.
What if you have much more influence over your reality than you feel like you have? What if it's not through controlling your circumstances and other people?
What if you could change yourself and trust that people would react to that?
What if by being more deliberate about CHOOSING how you want to live, moment by moment, you give the best chance for others to relax and join you in that new calmer, more fun and enjoyable life?
We can WASTE so much of our time analyzing, reacting and blaming others for how we feel that we forget how much power we have all by ourselves.
We help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident you're okay - no matter what.
A strategy and discipline to work on yourself and change how you want to operate as a man.
A new set of skills and knowledge nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
This is what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.
What if this next year everything changed for you?
That's what I want for you brother,
We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage:
Published on 3 years, 10 months ago