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182 | How to Be There For Someone During Tragic Loss
Description
Unsure of what to say to someone going through trauma or loss? Following on from last week's episode on what DocJen & Dr. Dom wish they'd known, going through a miscarriage. they discuss how to be there for someone during a tragic loss. From getting professional help with therapy to receiving support from those who have been through it, DocJen & Dr. Dom hone in on the uniqueness and subjectivity of tragic loss and how you support it, but from a place of comfort and acknowledgment. Using language to support healing, they emphasize providing space for the individual going through loss to approach you instead of providing unsolicited advice. They hone in on what may not be advantageous to say and how loss may persist and it's about learning to navigate light with a loss potentially being a part of you. By highlighting setting up a healing environment, they discuss differences in approaching the healing process, barriers, and the impact of toxic positivity on the grieving process. As an individual who may be going through loss, communicate your needs to support your healing process.
What You Will Learn In This PT Pearl:
03:28 - Getting through the psychological with therapy
05:20 - Support from those who have been through it
06:36 - Everyone has their own, unique traumatic experience
08:00 - What to say to someone experiencing loss
13:52 - Resources
15:10 - Let them know they don’t need to respond
17:06 - Self-advocacy: Let them come to you
19:06 - What not to say to someone experiencing loss
22:09 - It’s not about the pain going away
23:22 - Getting through Physical and emotional reminders & setting up a healing environment
30:04 - Different people process differently
33:25 - Bringing up barriers does not help
34:50 - Toxic Positivity & Grieving
36:36 - Other ways to let them know you’re thinking about them
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