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Protecting a Child From a Toxic Grandparent
Episode 6567
Published 1 day, 6 hours ago
Description
When a toxic parent becomes a grandparent, gifts turn into invoices and a baby becomes a lever in every argument. Although PubMed has no direct studies on protecting a young child from a harmful grandparent, clinical guidance from The Gottman Institute, ChoosingTherapy, Fran Walfish, and Whitney Goodman offers a clear framework. This conversation covers behavior-consequence boundaries, stepping in without scolding in front of the child, and why the guilt of estrangement is biology objecting rather than a wrong decision.
Key sources:
• Cornell Chronicle — https://news.cornell.edu/stories/2020/09/pillemer-family-estrangement-problem-hiding-plain-sight
• The Conversation — https://theconversation.com/family-rifts-affect-millions-of-americans-research-shows-possible-paths-from-estrangement-toward-reconciliation-165781
• The Economist — https://www.economist.com/united-states/2021/05/20/how-many-american-children-have-cut-contact-with-their-parents
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