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How much of your potential are you willing to sacrifice just to be liked? In this episode, Kevin and Alan analyse the hidden cost of self-belief and why pursuing ambitious goals can sometimes mean being misunderstood, criticized, or rejected. They explore the psychology of belonging, the influence of external validation, and the difference between genuine confidence and simply appearing confident. They also examine why strong self-belief can create social challenges, how self-efficacy develops through experience, and what it takes to pursue meaningful goals without depending on other people's approval.

This conversation will help you recognize where the need for acceptance may be holding you back, build lasting confidence, strengthen your resilience, and make decisions based on your values rather than fear of rejection. You don't need everyone to believe in you, but you do need to know what you're capable of. Give this one a listen. Your approval committee might need a few layoffs.

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#34 - Lori Harder - Creating Your Tribe and The Importance of Rejection

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Show notes:
(1:51) The hidden cost of strong self-belief
(4:22) How external validation shapes confidence
(6:37) The need for belonging and acceptance
(11:13) Self-belief and social isolation
(13:24) Building genuine confidence through experience
(17:43) Being liked Vs. Being respected
(19:50) Confidence Vs. Self-belief
(21:28) Pursuing goals despite rejection
(23:19) Outro

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