Episode Details

Worried you're going to pass down the same patterns you grew up with? This episode is FOR YOU.

Eli Harwood (Attachment Nerd) is back, and she's breaking down what cycle breaking actually looks like day to day, without the pressure to heal everything before your kid turns five.

In this episode we get into:

• What does breaking generational cycles actually look like in everyday parenting
• How much of the time do you have to get it right for your kid to be securely attached
• Why do I keep repeating my parents' patterns even though I swore I never would
• Do I need to heal myself before I can be a good parent
• How do I learn parenting skills that were never modeled for me
• How do I get my husband to work on his stuff without it turning into a fight
• What do I do after I lose my temper with my kids

Her words, and I have not stopped thinking about them: what has been traumatically created over generations will be healed over generations. You're ONE person. You get to do your part.


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