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#181 Emotional Infidelity: When the Affair Was Never Physical with Jill Pool
Description
What counts as cheating if nothing physical ever happened?
In this episode, Hali sits down with Certified Partner Coach, Jill Pool to name what so often goes unnamed: the betrayal that leaves no physical evidence but reshapes a person's entire sense of safety.
This conversation holds both partners with care and offers language for a kind of pain that's too often minimized.
About the guest:
Jill Pool is an APSATS Certified Partner Coach who helps individuals navigate the complexities of betrayal recovery. As the co-owner of Hope in the Havoc (with her husband, Alonso) and a contracted coach for Hope Redefined, Jill specializes in supporting those facing unique life challenges, such as special needs parenting, homeschooling, and child loss. As a Christian, she also offers clients the opportunity to incorporate their faith into the healing journey. She develops resources that utilize straightforward language, enabling betrayed partners to express themselves more effectively. As a homeschooling mom of 12, she knows firsthand how to balance demanding family dynamics with personal healing.
Connect with Jill:
Website: hopeinthehavoc.com
Emotional Betrayal DNA resources: hopeinthehavoc.com/resources
Instagram: @hopeinthehavoc
Facebook: /hopeinthehavoc
Email: info@hopeinthehavoc.com
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