Episode Details

Your partner just bought another expensive gadget without asking. Again. You're trying to figure out if you should start an argument or just quietly resent them for the next three weeks. Most couples think money fights are about the money. They're not. Divorce attorney James Sexton has watched thousands of relationships implode, and he knows exactly which three financial conversations will make or break your relationship. Nina breaks down his insights and what the research actually says about couples and money. What you'll discover: • Why the "financial infidelity" happening in 40% of relationships is worse than an affair • The one money conversation that predicts divorce with 94% accuracy • How to have the awkward money talk without it turning into a screaming match Chapters: 00:00 The real reason couples fight about money 02:30 Three money conversations that end relationships 05:45 Why financial transparency beats financial compatibility 08:20 The prenup conversation nobody wants to have 10:15 How to start talking about money today Here's what's wild: couples spend more time planning their wedding than discussing how they'll handle money for the next 50 years. Then they act surprised when it becomes a problem. If you've ever wondered why your money conversations always go sideways, this episode will change how you think about financial compatibility. Nina takes James Sexton's real-world divorce experience and shows you what the medical research says about stress, relationships, and money. Follow Brainwaves for daily episodes that cut through the noise. Nina's got 15 years of emergency medicine experience, so she knows the difference between relationship advice that works and feel-good fluff that doesn't.

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