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In this dynamic conversation, Kristy and I explored many loaded tangents about what builds and erodes trust between men and women, how we operate and communicate differently in relationship and how society and culture continue to predispose us towards harmful patterns. I found her insights both so sharp and refreshing!

Kristy Scher is a relationship expert and creator of The Way of the Adored Woman, a body of work that helps women create the kind of love in which they feel deeply adored, desired, and met—without abandoning themselves to have it.  Her work challenges the simplistic gender narratives that pit men and women against one another and asks a more interesting question: what does it actually take to become capable of extraordinary love?
After two decades of emotional disconnection, Kristy transformed her own marriage into one that is deeply connected, erotically alive, and devoted.  Today, she helps women turn entrenched relational patterns into relational power—not by making men the problem or the project, but by learning to change the dance from their side of it.  At the heart of her work is a conviction: great love requires self-possession, emotional fluency, and the courage to become skillful at loving another human being.

Follow her unique brand of revolutionary optimism about love on Instagram: @kristy.scher.  Or learn more about The Way of The Adored Woman, listen to other podcast interviews, and find some of her free resources here: https://stan.store/KristyScher, www.kristyscher.love, www.thewayof theadoredwoman.com