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You’re Allowed to Become Someone New
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What happens when the identities you've spent a lifetime building begin to fall away?
Brooke Lark joins Rocky and Tessa for a conversation about entering what Hindu philosophy calls the forest-dweller stage—a season of turning inward, loosening your grip on who you've been, and discovering who you might become next. For Brooke, that has looked like becoming an empty nester, selling her studio and home, entering her 50s, and watching identities she once thought were permanent begin to disappear.
Together, they explore the invisible rules we inherit, the ways women learn to self-police, listening to the body, allowing ourselves to change, and the freedom of realizing there may be many versions of us within a single lifetime. The conversation also moves into Brooke's experiences with psychedelics and plant medicine—including mushrooms and ayahuasca—and how those experiences have influenced the way she understands herself, her voice, and her relationship with the world.
It's a conversation about identity, weirdness, wisdom, and what might be waiting on the other side of the rules we didn't realize we'd made for ourselves.
In this episode:
- The four stages of life and becoming a “forest dweller”
- What happens when familiar identities begin falling away
- The invisible rules we inherit—and eventually enforce on ourselves
- Self-expression, femininity and finding your own voice
- Plant medicine, psychedelics and Brooke's medicine path
- Learning to trust your body and your own ways of knowing
- Allowing yourself to live more than one life in a lifetime
Connect with Brooke Lark
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brookelark/?hl=en
Good Mama Magic — Brooke's nine-episode audio series exploring her story, including the experiences with ayahuasca she discusses in this conversation.
https://open.spotify.com/show/3yhIspUhtoNSnfUzSmRpWy?si=b4748165dbf64eca
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