Episode Details

Heather “Lulu” Mazzei (Lulu Lee Mazzei) is a licensed clinical social worker, certified psychedelic-assisted therapist, and practitioner of tantra and sacred sexuality. After building a thriving sex therapy practice and burlesque career in Los Angeles while living a solo polyamorous life, she experienced a profound shift — moving into monogamous marriage and relocating to the Sacred Valley of Peru. She now guides people toward what she calls “spirit-centered sexuality” and is the author of the guidebook Spirit Sex.

In this honest and transformative conversation, Lulu shares:

• The night she realized her outwardly successful life still wasn’t enough

• Leaving a thriving career and lifestyle behind

• Moving from polyamory to monogamy and what surrender really feels like

• Redefining sex beyond a fixed menu of acts

• How slowness and reduced distraction unlock deeper pleasure and connection

• The path toward spirit-centered sexuality

• Practical insight for anyone seeking more authentic intimacy and presence

If you’re in your 20s exploring relationships, sexuality, identity, or feeling the pull toward a more meaningful and embodied way of living, this episode offers depth, honesty, and a different kind of freedom.

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Connect with Lulu Mazzei

Website:https://www.alternativelove.com/

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Chapters

0:00 - Intro & Welcome Lulu Mazzei

1:40 - Building a Thriving Sex Therapy & Burlesque Life

8:15 - The Night Everything Changed

15:30 - Leaving LA and the Old Definition of Success

23:10 - From Polyamory to Monogamy

31:45 - What Surrender Actually Feels Like

40:20 - Redefining Sex and Pleasure

48:50 - Spirit-Centered Sexuality Explained

57:15 - Encouragement for Authentic Intimacy & Presence