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Back to EpisodesEP162 Do You Belong… Or Have You Just Got Really Good at Fitting In?
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I came home from Ibiza this week with thousands of thoughts, but one has followed me home way more loudly than the others:
Belonging.
And specifically, whether some of us have confused genuinely belonging with becoming really bloody good at reading the room, learning the rules and adjusting ourselves accordingly.
In this episode, I'm exploring the connection between identity, belonging and our relationship with ourselves. I talk about the tiny ways we edit ourselves to secure our place, why this shows up just as much in business as it does in our personal relationships and what Ibiza taught me about feeling safe enough to be seen without showing up as a particular version of myself.
Because I'm starting to believe that real belonging isn't just about finding the right people.
It's being able to stay connected to yourself while you're connected to them.
And if you have to edit yourself to stay somewhere, it's worth asking whether you ever really belonged there in the first place.
This is a very personal episode. A little Ibiza, a lot of identity, some fairly big questions and, unfortunately, vomiting in sequins 😂
Let's talk about what it actually means to belong 🩷
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