Episode Details

In this episode, we explore the boundaries people can FEEL—the kind that indirectly let people know how to treat you without you having to bark instructions at them. This conversation is especially for the girl who already knows when someone has made her uncomfortable but feels squirmy and uncomfy about calling it out bluntly or directly.

What you'll learn in this episode:

• The difference between traditional "vocal" boundaries and the boundaries people pick up on without being explicitly told—the kind that make someone think, "For some reason, I better not speak like that around her. Let me adjust myself."

• The three subtle cues we all give that people pick up on when determining how carefully and thoughtfully to treat us.

• What it can look like to respond to an insult when directness doesn't come naturally to you—no more giggling to make things less awkward, by the way!

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