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Back to EpisodesThe Truth About BDSM Negotiation (And Why It Matters)
Description
Curious about BDSM negotiation and why it's so important? Learn how to negotiate BDSM scenes with confidence with 100+ questions for discussing consent, desires, limits, safety, aftercare, and communication so every experience is safer, more fulfilling, and built on informed consent.
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
- (00:00) - Intro
- (01:58) - What Is Negotiation in BDSM?
- (03:38) - Why Have Negotiations?
- (05:59) - Misconceptions About Negotiation
- (11:46) - How to Negotiate in BDSM
- (15:14) - Goal of the Scene
- (18:03) - Needs & Boundaries
- (21:09) - Desires & Limits
- (26:55) - Safety & Risks
- (32:01) - Relevant Disclosures
- (35:12) - Aftercare
- (36:13) - Re-Negotiation
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