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I got married at 21. Looking back, This Is What I Wish I Was Warned About | Allan P
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[S3] EPISODE 36: WOULD I LET MY SON MARRY THIS EARLY?
In this episode, Blaque sits down with Allan P to talk about getting married young and what 13 years of marriage has taught him about the decision he made at just 21. While he doesn’t regret marrying his wife, but looking back, there are things he wishes he had understood before saying “I do.” They talk about what it really means to be ready for marriage, the role of financial stability, the importance of having a healthy community around you, and why faith without preparation can sometimes become an excuse for poor planning.
They also wrestle with a bigger question: If his son came to him at 21 and said he wanted to get married, would he encourage him to do it? From growing up alongside his wife to building a family together, Allan P reflects on the challenges of learning marriage while already living it, the mistakes he made in his younger years, and the bond that can come from building a life together from the ground up.
This isn't a simple argument for or against getting married young. It's an honest conversation about maturity, responsibility, preparation, community, faith and whether you're actually ready for what marriage requires.
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