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The Beautiful Badass Bod Era: How fashion can help create a midlife revolution
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Has your body changed in perimenopause or menopause and suddenly your clothes don’t feel like you anymore?
Heather Bolt, founder of Dotty Clothing, joins Lisa Boate for a funny, honest conversation about midlife fashion, changing bodies, body confidence and what happens when we stop trying to dress the woman we used to be.
We talk about the messages Gen X women inherited about our bodies, the ridiculous rules around dressing “age appropriately,” sensory and body changes in midlife, colour, comfort, visibility and why getting dressed can be a surprisingly powerful part of reclaiming your identity.
Because the goal isn’t to get your old body back.
It’s to dress the body you have now in a way that makes you feel like yourself.
And sometimes, as Heather puts it, we need to remember who the hell we are.
In this episode:
• How perimenopause and menopause can change the way clothes feel and fit
• Why “age appropriate” style rules deserve to be questioned
• Body confidence after 40 and 50
• The messages Gen X women learned about taking up space
• Dressing for the body you have instead of waiting for your body to change
• Using colour, comfort and personal style to reconnect with yourself
• Why midlife can be the moment we stop disappearing
Chapters
00:00 How to Dress a Changing Midlife Body
00:47 How Clothes Change How We Feel
02:34 “I’m 56. It’s My Time to Shine”
03:51 Who Decided What’s Age Appropriate?
05:10 Dressing for Perimenopause & Menopause Body Changes
08:25 Let Go of Clothes That Make You Feel Like Garbage
14:00 Fashion, Body Confidence & Taking Up Space
24:00 What Gen X Learned About Women’s Bodies
34:00 Colour, Visibility & Midlife Style
39:48 Why Midlife Women Are Done Disappearing
44:07 Remember Who the Hell You Are
47:30 Dress for How You Want to Feel
Connect with Heather:
Dotty: https://www.dotty.ca/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dottyclothing/
Connect with Lisa:
Website: liberatedmenopause.ca
Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca
Instagram: @lboate
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Transforming45
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