Episode Details

In episode 283, I'm getting personal about how people pleasing made me settle in dating, friendship, and work, how it led to panic attacks on my lunch break, and the three-step formula I used to quit, one small choice at a time.

→ I thought I was and wanted "too much," and how that kept me in a relationship where none of my emotional needs were met

→ How people pleasing was showing up in every relationship in my life, from texting clients at 10 p.m. to making every single plan for my friend group

→ How you can go from feeling sick with people pleasing, like I was, to building an expansive, joyful life as the main character

→ The unconventional way to use guilt as your roadmap to give yourself more permission

→ The three-step formula I used to quit people pleasing and build main character energy, even when I was afraid

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